COSA È SUCCESSO: Racconto integrale senza filtri sul nostro parto/post parto

Hello everyone and welcome back to this channel.

We're back making videos after the series "

Our Little Warrior," which you

liked so much. We thank you for the

support you've given us, for all the

nice comments you've written. Thank you so much. I'll

have a little difficulty with

this idea of ​​talking. I hope I can manage to

tell you everything. Let's start with some

considerations about childbirth. How

we experienced those moments,

what happened, why we disappeared

afterwards, also because I don't always like the

camera on. We tried to

film as much as possible to bring

this content to you on the channel. However,

as you can imagine, there were

some moments in which our

attention was focused on something else. We were

truly focused only on the baby. I'd like to

start with my hospitalization. She was

placed in the hospital for a very long time,

but her

goal was the birth of a

little one. So for me, every day of

hospitalization was a very long one, and through it, I've never

been hospitalized, so

I was terrified of being hospitalized

together with us. What

they adjusted before hospitalization was

because the bile acids

had risen. Now, in the meantime, you wrote, "

Why did she have to do these things?"

Induction for the neighbors is not good, it's not

good, it's not that we chose it,

unfortunately, bile acids are

dangerous for the baby when it is

in the womb.

The thing that ensures was to lower

this value and above all to do

the induction of the fact as soon as possible,

that's why I was hospitalized because they

had to do the induction and then they

will have to monitor me morning, afternoon and

evening to make sure everything is going

well, thank God,

the baby himself, exactly, the majority

is the main

monitoring operation, as true, the videos are

always videos that did X-rays to

check a child's heart and

movements, everything once

the induction began, the difficult thing on a

psychological level that I then

also saw in my roommates

because obviously it was state ten

days I had several

roommates different stories because they all

supported Peppe Grioli and I had

become the joke of the ward,

all the nurses I knew, I knew

the shifts and met everyone Addison

day and asked the girls who

did the cleaning if I could

help with the cleaning which I was not

called to do. I was fine obviously I

had no pain,

the induction began but the difficult thing is

Seeing that one method doesn't work and not

even the next one, that is, you put so much

energy and so much hope into one

rival, Sandolo, already from the balloon,

accepted the phone call. 20, the waters broke,

of course, we took a prenatal course, let's say

we said all the steps we

would have faced, that percentage reduction

sooner or later, one works in the other, Munzio,

among other things, we were lucky because

I was admitted before there was the

total closure for the covered

because now the Pope can no longer

enter, I'm a dentist at his time that

the department is closed there are only

mothers with children and when instead I

was admitted, obviously

Alessandro could enter. 6 in the department

are the fathers, the Pope is a person already

arrested if I didn't have a marine companion

there was still another person so

a person loses people and then the child

in the room, even the parents

couldn't even be in the

waiting room, they could wait outside and

now total closure

unfortunately for all the mothers who have

recovered now that they are giving birth, they do

n't have either in the rectorate, mine in the

various dei decumani, I don't dare to imagine

how they really are, they have all

my understanding, I send A kiss to

all of them and also to the dads because for

you

only in peace and that we hope

this moment passes soon anyway let's get

a little more to the point we have to try

to make this video even shorter

postman let's not go to the most

crucial point after you have done everything

the induction that you therefore saw from the

videos with the ribbon Federica

also felt sick unfortunately I had

stomach problems several times and I went

into hyperstimulation Sisto gave them heels

I'm also worried about the network

they suspected Federica road for a

bit worried I was very pale that after

the ribbon there was a bit of distrust with

these two rounds which however didn't have

much effect

no let's say that Federica went into

labor thanks to a maneuver by a

midwife health worker they broke the sac

from the inside so guys from that

moment the whole birth changed from when

nothing was happening Federica

had some contractions but p you do it

cina wasn't having an effect for the

second day we arrived at the second

day because I tell everyone who

asked me we

arrived at the second at 2 but oxytocin ca

n't be done for a third day because it

means that his body is not reacting to

the medicine and we need to go

straight to a cesarean section, which

obviously he couldn't, so no

tubes, we want because we wanted to have

a natural birth,

nothing against cesarean sections, you will be

close, but for God's sake, when

you hear now, it's our story,

we really went through a humorous thing and

for the good of the children, anything is done,

this is obvious, of course, because they had

all these medicines, they are good for him,

because he had to be born after

this rupture of the sac, suddenly,

suddenly, a contraction of shortness of breath, that's what

I remember and that

every single contraction counts, I was

concentrated, guys, as I said, I

did what I said, then

my music,

I sang, tables, I was breathing, the bad thing

unfortunately is that I'm sorry but it wasn't my

fault, not being on an IV, the

color of China, you have to have

V monitoring until the end, that is, I gave

birth while I still had your two

things attached because with the medicine

you have to constantly monitor the

baby's heartbeat and movements because he

could go into distress,

so I didn't have freedom of movement, I

couldn't use the word much, he

only used it maybe A

good hour spent with the back of

something would help, however, getting out of

bed because I couldn't get

down I had to move the IV to

get on with the cables to get back, he

threw himself with his back on me, it was

very relaxing and it was very

beautiful

for the rest of the birth,

let's keep the dirt road, but she caressed my

head, but that moment instead

we were even hugging, yes, it's like how

I imagined our labor would be. I

recommend it to everyone, it's a beautiful

feeling, involve them because they are

essential, I how to thank him for

all the support he sent the car

without him and not just that day

obviously, without us,

throughout my entire hospitalization, I wouldn't have, I wouldn't have

resisted, I wouldn't have made it,

the ray of sunshine, that is, he

came into the room, well, it

lights up your day, I couldn't see with

Tavano what minutes and I couldn't wait, I

remember, as I also said in the video,

direction immediately after, it was the fact

that the second day of oxytocin,

so it was the final round,

if you didn't know the effect with the wing, we

will be gone, having a cesarean, I remind you that

I'm high I took a shower

and then I got straight to

the morning. I went with all the competition I

wanted. You saw me dancing for

him. He had hiccups in his stomach that

had everything and nothing. It didn't work. That wasn't the case.

This rupture of the

sac really hurts. Dogs hurt.

Tell me the moment. He went out. He worked a lot

and Federica when I came back and

said sorry. He wants me. You must have heard me

sure to finish. There were right at the end of the break.

Process that he didn't document.

Sorry everyone. I documented what there were

many things. You stop and then from

there the labor began and it started

around half past noon.

Mostly, the hours passed.

Obviously the pain became stronger and stronger. I

challenge him. China was in circulation

because I already had it in circulation and

so the days became

unbearable. I couldn't take it anymore. I

had no energy anymore. I hesitated. Do it.

Sandro's duration was

there. I them resist. I tried in

every way to resist. He didn't

make it

as if the end without and I was there. I gave it my

all but at a certain point I

made a little plant. Thank God I had

done it. The anesthesiologist visited and thank

God they did the epidural even if the

first one worked. Come and tell us that I

told Federica you feel like you

gave your all, that is, leaving here

on Rai. I resisted and that he knew the

end is coming. They did

the epidural, but among other things, in the kingdoms there

are those who are good at epidurals and those who are

not good. It is that Federica had been

operated on because of a

back problem that she had a culture on her back, it

was a great terror for her.

Lazio is it better to do it so that way

then the pain goes away. When they did it to me at

the beginning I had a relaxation, but then

I had what they call

a little button, or rather it seems that I don't

know when the medicine passes, can it

find a little button of fat of papers?

The reason is not only that it doesn't pass

the medicine to a point of the body,

obviously you mean from which point the

foot in the tip of the toe

the buttock no the part of the left

so a part of the left to this

part here was completely exposed by the

visual and therefore she had strong pains and

then called the anesthesiologist who was turned around

wanted to come back they checked and said

no everything was fine everything was fine so I do

n't know we don't know another anesthesiologist came back

instead and told me I'm

not leaving here in archetto 1st the good

and it was fantastic because she stayed

inside until he was born little I am

until the end because Tommaso was tormented

with his back he saw how the back

on this side of Federica was

lowering this part with the back

so much so that the bladder was full

obviously time passed we did the

IVs and the walnuts that was totally full

crushed by him and they couldn't

spit out apple a midwife arrives via

meters practically on the side she

screwed on free then I had

an hour of sleep and I still think I

managed to push then to have

a natural birth in the

end precisely thanks to that said

sleep we are talking about March 7th

around 11 11.30 and because the self

March is my sister's birthday and

now not only that and so we wanted to

reborn the lingerie first The day

before and then the last half hour

Federica makes me call him sterile but

we have to get him out of the alarm clock this

baby has to be born first he sees

pushing back he has to be born I

swear I tried until midnight and

the last push before midnight

go see redo see called sister

what can I say he will celebrate his birthday

together with my ropes we tried

he worked in all ways autonomists

started pushing obviously and

as you can see in the video they are also alive I

mean we see it let's understand them if

I push I see it basically the problem was that

the little one wasn't coming down if Tommaso

Tommaso was positioned too straight he wasn't

turned and therefore his head wasn't coming down

i.e. returning to his captain he wasn't

coming down in any case the position he

was in in the belly he has never been

straight I don't send him like that he has

always been sideways so the

position he was in didn't

allow me to push well they

tried to help me while I was pushing

pushing on the belly but it wasn't

enough and so at a certain point they

told me papa he has to come out like ten past midnight

a trial more in

Valcato and I could have been shocked

even if I was very calm

and while I go out I see them starting to

put on gowns and hats for their

heads which by the way they all also had

masks

yes because I also put on the

mask because in any case even if

there wasn't a total lockdown there was already the

coronavirus contagion and therefore being in

such close contact even

difficult for you to breathe I believe that

Federica was the first woman to

have given birth in January

I put my hand in the fire and then after all

the anxieties now I think now everyone is there

now fortunately yes maybe

claim that the raspberries do the

swabs that they closed this huge

glass door peak of the moment I

remember that the anesthetist was also there

with another nurse who were

preparing the operating room because

why did they get dressed because they are

collapsing operating room because they

told me at 12:10

that time of the morning is constituted

we have a chance now let's do

these two pushes we'll try with the

suction cup if it doesn't come out cesarean I immediately

found myself surrounded by all of them

dressed in operating room clothes which I had

understood obviously because they were always

ready he wasn't there I tried to

push in all of them I swear in

every way they weren't on their

stomachs and they still couldn't get him

out

I prayed and prayed really loudly

and also for him from the roof number

let by the way gross and when I came out

I blew a kiss Federica and

then I looked the strategist in the

eyes he said let him be born he had

sent a nurse out to

check on them I also call back

corridors and pray best wishes or I then

I was just waiting for the crying when only

hearing the crying from outside and then

weeks inside screaming at the

pushing me they crushed her she gave in there

were three on top of me

the famous midwife who says he

up here with his arms like this another one

here and another one here imagine I

'm pushing all concentrated the one

who joked with me the times

the problematic scene this one who was

outside and checking was with her face

inside to watch then she turned around and

told me things

meanwhile I walked I walked a certain point

after screaming screams for the last spi

the last one he won't let go of me this one who

won't come out with her head down

let's go to the operation Marco, it's

the last one, I can do it, I

stand there and we squeeze, I push it back with

all the strength I have, they hit me all over the

stomach and I feel the

overturning, that's what they all say at that moment,

no,

my head out of what was

happening, and the nurse who turns around and says, my

head came out and wait for me,

but wait, I knew that when the head comes out, it

's done by her, from another push, and

this one turns around and says,

congratulations, dad, and hugs me, the

moment, I hug me, she's done,

but she'll sit down, come in right away, and so I

took it, I went in, from this time, she

opened it and she says,

no, no, wait, the moment is solved,

tied up, I went in

and the first thing I did was

not look at the side and they

were operating, I immediately went

to Federica and she hugs him, kisses him like

dogs, sister,

Tommaso's side, a puzzle from that's it, the

fact is that while we were

hugging each other like that, crying, I had a

feeling like I wasn't looking

because I couldn't look at him,

but at the same time I didn't feel the

implant, so I said, why isn't he crying, they

pulled up, it was a little

regulation, yes, I have it I saw it and I saw it

in him it was a purple pendant yes it

was purple and then the best thing was really awakening

anyway this head

pensions and that they were holding it from the body and

so you were being dangling

at that moment I said that is to say born failed

also organized to say why does

n't he cry because hateful because purple I who

saw you of order and calm

will be a health so they took him to

this bed a little far from us but so

that we could see him they

attached him to a respirator declared

that you had using the regale they

cleared the airways what

I remember and that there was praise will

probably be a hand a leg that

I saw that he saw this purple their

living rooms in front but I managed to see

Tommaso anyway and from who it was it was purple

slowly I saw that he had a

slightly pinker color than Port Vila 1 st

mask with oxygen the sides of

verses slowly the first was

slight slight to have increased

they complained feel the first plants and the

sensation

remains really imprinted in it is said

nothing more beautiful felt cries and

after this first cry finally there is a

arm that they gave an arm to

me unfortunately there was no first

skin-to-skin contact Alessandro did not

cut the cord for who cares they

gave him in my arms and it was the

moment spite of the world it was the

most beautiful moment in the world I looked at him

in this had a real boulder that is we

had made it we had made it

proposition of fullness and

happiness to a found something immense they

also showed us the placenta he

had said no he can't see it that he is

coming and that there was not a certain it

seems like the Venetian liver he

finished everything they put us in another

room

we are with him for a while we also make

calls to the parents to warn them all

crying I do

not tell you but from the emotion on the

part of our families

Rome he will be in my arms dressed in

his blanket sweet little one

also tries to latch on to the breast yes we

also tried to latch him immediately to

Siena while not not directing since in

fact there were three of us so the midwife

takes him to take him to the nursery to have me

check ups from the pediatrician but we

initially when we gave him We

thought he would bring him back and

instead he did the same thing and he said Tommaso we'll

see him tomorrow morning because you have to

have checks with the pediatrician and the video

that we were calm and they

reported how the room full of

energy of trio at least I feel bad go we

eat a supplire but the

matter but if I have to send a supplì with

voracity again January was

a beautiful moment for me because he was born we

had made it I mean I felt

like I was having a war to understand right

porches we felt and while we

were just eating under supplì

full of happiness the

doctor arrived and told us that Tommaso

was in a bit of pain

so it had been necessary to put him

in the incubator but that there was no need to

worry because in any case it was a

very tiring birth for me and for

him too and that he remained account that he puts the

canal is a little tired we will

put him in the incubator with oxygen

tomorrow anyway don't

worry anyway we will bring him to you that's

all

so I am they reread yes with the

worry poor thing he struggled but

we were quite Don't worry, you

could have seen him the next day and

that if I did well, of course he will come

but a cake list no but better if there

are no problems they should be fine

whenever you want years the next morning full

of joy I woke up very early because

I knew that the children were brought

away around six and therefore have it

ready for Tommaso and in reality

then I saw that they were bringing the children and they

told me that they wouldn't bring

the doctor came to the room and told me

that Tommaso during the night is not

well so let's say that this

fatigue had been a little more

heavy than what they had

understood at the beginning and due to a suspicion of

infection they had to transfer him it's not an

easy thing they had to

transfer him so

from the hospital where we were they wanted to

provide him with assistance but not

assistance that is adequate but in case he

was forgiven they still wouldn't have been

able to help him and so they

preferred to transfer him immediately

they said to be safe

imagine evi my election I mean

we had waited so long the

whole birth was difficult and then after

you just wait to have her next to you they

take him away

after half an hour he is transferred and then I

immediately ask to be discharged

but they saw that I had given birth for

like ten hours they didn't grant me the

discharge obviously call him and I

tell him out because they have to

transfer him and come because they will let us say

goodbye before they take him to the other

hospital

for my part what happened to me

that evening I went back home around

3 maybe 3 3.30 I don't

remember

in the end I went to the collection because

I wanted to immortalize the happiness of that

moment the first impressions as a dad and

so I was very happy as he said in

the video I talked about how

strong the two of them had been and how

proud I was and so I go to sleep around

4.30 5 must have been falling

asleep the total phoria and around

9 on the bedside table I feel the

cell phone vibrate I answer and she tells me this

thing and so from there I mean I was in shock

and she reminded me I did I called

my parents and her parents and

what I said I said help me

because I need help tough I said I

need help

and because I can't do it the parents

offered to accompany me

to the hospital and I am hurry

hurry we have to go to the

embroidery he is waiting we have

those put a bit of a hurry who will

take him away in 45 minutes

and nothing he rushed to

get there and when we arrived and

I saw that they were preparing

the incubator to take him away at a

certain point I hear Federica's voice

corridor turns the corner and in the wheelchair

so that it doesn't get into his legs the

resumption of the procedure we waited for

the film and the waiting room since they

put him in this incubator most holy

is in front of Rossi Genoa Rossi Gera

the names of the cases Piccolomini Cordiano of

cables is developed everything to

help him with the oxygen so

we didn't have to even touch him

because anyway he was inside this

this incubator and so

we saw nothing and taking it away by four

Moors with masks and gloves that

we said so on the fly a

prayer a prayer and they took it

away

they took it away and I stayed with Federica for a while

just to reassure her

We talked a little more for me, no, we

closed ourselves in even if the room, as

you saw, was shared,

we pulled the curtain, we were

with each other for a bit,

in the afternoon I went to

this other hospital where, in fact,

they let me in and

the emergency of this virus had just begun,

so all the necessary precautions:

wash your hands, masks, gloves,

pink gowns, yesterday the particular bait, talking a

little, let's say that as soon as I entered the

ward, a

nurse accompanied me as soon as I saw him,

the agri exploded because I saw everything like that and so it was

n't nice, but she gave me time

to recover and then she called a

doctor, I spoke to the

doctor who, we have rules, let's talk about it, who

made one of the worst clinical pictures ever, who

said

so many things that, as soon as I left

there, I didn't want to tell anyone and I

kept everything to myself because it was

right that others didn't

feel the same pain that I

felt in that moment and nothing,

so I left the and it was probably

the worst time of my

life, I think that in that moment I

understood what pain means, the

pain of potentially losing someone and

nothing, so it remained a A very

very impressed moment in my mind, this

March 8th, it was until the day of his

birth, well, that one day of great

pain, it was the day and boss,

I thought we would lose everything, okay,

we really thought we didn't

have it and I thought I had

lost everything and even if there were remote

possibilities, or we want to be

positive anyway and we keep repeating ourselves, but the

baby was fine,

baby, the baby was breathing, crying,

how is it possible and we, I don't know if you can

explain it to me, they didn't know how to explain,

thanking God,

then, let's say, the next day, the

situation improved, thanks also

to the promptness of the doctors

at the hospital where I was hospitalized, who

had immediately started an antibiotic

because they had seen that there were

difficulties everywhere, there was

fatigue, and thanks precisely to this

promptness,

Tommaso began to recover and

therefore the incubator was

only necessary for a few days,

oxygen was also suspended after

a day, in short, he has made

giant steps, the best friends, incredible

for now, coastal,

now I'll explain, I explain that we see every

day,

this time it was worth our time too,

we went to visit him for an hour in the morning and

in the afternoon because with This virus-related

period saw visits only in

the morning for an hour, in the afternoon for an hour,

otherwise it was 24 hours. If we want to

come in, only for an hour, alternating

half an hour. I'm Alessandro, the

name of March, hasn't been seen, that is, March

has been, he can feel it in his nose,

and Federica couldn't stand it any longer in there. She

said, "I have to go out, so take me

to him, it's the next day." She left

immediately, and I'm going straight to Tommaso's. I

saw bitterness in her feet. 2010-00 tables,

she was walking with difficulty. The strength of a mother

surpasses these things. Then, in the

morning, they spoke to another

donor. He calmed her down a bit, even though it

was much less catastrophic. We went on

to allow him to breastfeed, which

was this sensation of the Arpacal at the

breast. It was the greatest joy. It's

March 11th, and my mind is that if he wants,

we can try. I

burst with joy because

the most beautiful thing was because I picked him

up and because we finally had him, he

could feel me. I knew he

needed me, I knew there was a need

for contact, and then here's this thing.

Having to stay only half an hour

we left the race we were full of

energy because we had just seen her

touched but destroyed because I knew she

needed us we knew she

needed attention and if she cries if she

wants honesty in our arms and that was how it was so

we spent those

days closed a little late locked up

in our pain and our

worry in our love because

thank God we are there we

also held each other in our love to give

all the support possible

something more difficult had left from there

both in the morning and in the afternoon without

him returning home without him returning

which our room where we are now

without him

thinking of him thinking of him there I explain I am

doing everything to use for him he could

need us and we were not

there in that period we really

closed ourselves even the closest friends

who called us want to

congratulate us and so we asked

to give each other our space

we explained minimally what

had happened that was with us I must

say all the family members and friends

understood this moment of ours

all the messages we received from

you and wherever it is YouTube run

sagra but everywhere we read your

concern in your affection

so we made those posts Of course, with

that, as being nothing about attracting

attention or sensationalism, no

absolutely not, not just

letting us know that we were going through a

particular moment and that we also explained that when we

felt

ready to talk to her, we would do

nothing about it, this is the moment when we

feel ready,

so we are ready to talk about it, yes,

because thank God,

Tommaso is fine with us, and although how you

feel now is waking you up a

little because she's sleeping, chatter every

now and then, this is the story, a little bit of

detail, diaper change,

what else to say, we, here,

let us know if you've gotten

this far, maybe use a

hashtag that they can use for diaper, it

means you've gotten this far and

you've fully understood what

happened, and also everyone for the

messages while we were gone,

these days of silence, I'm doing

parrot style, good job, I want to

thank all the staff at

the hospital where I was admitted,

even if we are doing the new thing, the

midwives, the nurses, and the

doctors of the show I was

admitted are angels, I also want to

thank the medical staff who take

care of me. of these little puppies who

fight because the little

warrior because these children are

all little warriors who are there and

fight goes away every day to

get out of the hospital and with them

the parents fight so our heart is with

all the parents who have children

hospitalized because guys it's not easy

but you have to be positive and always

optimistic because they fight for you

and you fight for them we must

be strong forever and nothing this

video was all thanks for having

service until what the agreement

like subscribe to this channel if

you want to stay with us ropes

in this crazy femmili with

always new content every week but ale and

sommi retto shirts for hunger bye bye

[Music]

[Music] okay okay

there was