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Tony Robbins on the REAL Reason 99% of People Stay Stuck | The Iced Coffee Hour

11:26959 summary words · ~5 min readEnglishBy Tony RobbinsTranscribed Oct 17, 2026

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Summary

People stay stuck because they lack insatiable hunger and view challenges as a rigged system instead of historical, cyclical seasons that reward pattern mastery and skill investment.

Understanding seasonal patterns and mastering market value shifts you from fear-driven reactivity to high-leverage ownership where your earnings and growth operate independently of economic headwinds.

Section summaries

Hunger vs. Systemic Excuses

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Tony Robbins explains that the defining trait separating successful changemakers from the rest is an insatiable hunger combined with relentlessness, rather than raw intellectual ability. He refutes the narrative that systemic unfairness is a modern anomaly, pointing out that interest rates stood at 18% when he was young compared to modern 6% complaints. Robbins connects his upbringing—facing poverty, Thanksgiving without food, and navigating four stepfathers—directly to his drive to distribute over 62 billion meals.

Intelligence without relentlessness fails against minimal adversity.
Systemic imbalance is historical normalcy, not a novel excuse to surrender.

Establishes the philosophical foundation that relentless internal drive matters far more than external macroeconomic conditions.

The Four Seasons of History

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Robbins summarizes world history using the adage that easy times generate fragile people and recommends reading 'The Fourth Turning' or 'Generations' by Strauss and Howe. He recalls advising President Bill Clinton and House Speaker Newt Gingrich, noting both political leaders kept that specific book on their desks. He frames historical eras as cyclical seasons, highlighting that his early adulthood began in an economic winter with crushing 18% interest rates.

Historical cycles alternate between spring, summer, fall, and winter over generational spans.
Top national leaders across opposing parties rely on generational cycle frameworks to read national mood.

Offers essential reading material and macro perspective on economic cycles.

Pattern Recognition and Seasonal Strategy

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Robbins details his early real estate venture where 102 sellers rejected his offers before the 103rd accepted, only for a tenant to immediately demand $100,000 over a broken staircase. He emphasizes that breakthrough performance stems from pattern recognition, pattern utilization, and pattern creation. Comparing life to agriculture, he warns that planting in winter produces zero harvest, whereas early adulthood represents a forgiving spring where early wins can deceive young founders into thinking they are geniuses.

Understanding structural patterns eradicates the fear of unpredictable market swings.
Early venture success often reflects favorable seasonal timing rather than personal genius.

Breaks down Robbins' core framework of pattern hierarchy and seasonal life phases.

Jim Rohn's Value Rule and the 3 Skills

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Addressing how young, disillusioned individuals can build self-respect and progress, Robbins cites mentorship from Jim Rohn focusing on adding market value over self-interest. Rohn clarified that humans possess equal spiritual worth but unequal marketplace value based on skill rarity. Robbins identifies history, human psychology, and business operations as the three non-negotiable core disciplines to study to avoid succumbing to online victim narratives.

Marketplace reward directly correlates to the volume of unique value provided.
History, psychology, and business fundamentals are the triad needed to navigate shifting markets.

Contains foundational mindset advice regarding economic reality and self-education.

Pattern Creation and Operator Plateaus

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Robbins notes that while completely unmotivated individuals cannot be fixed externally, inevitable life crises force proactive or reactive maturation. He uses musical modeling to explain that once someone copies existing masters long enough, their unique voice emerges to create new patterns. He outlines the trap of the business operator who bottlenecks company growth by doing every task themselves to prevent employee mistakes.

Adversity will eventually force growth reactively if not pursued proactively.
Operators bottleneck businesses by refusing to let team members make the mistakes necessary for growth.

Crucial guidance for transitioning from solo practitioner to genuine leader.

Owner vs. Self-Employed Mindset

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Managing over 114 companies alongside family life requires functioning as an enterprise owner rather than an operator. Robbins clarifies that doing everything yourself means you merely hold a demanding self-employed job. True business ownership only exists when internal systems and trained leadership allow the founder to walk away for months while revenue and operations continue expanding.

Self-employment is a demanding job you own; an enterprise functions entirely without your daily presence.
Scalable expansion requires building trust-backed teams capable of running operations autonomously.

Provides a clean, practical litmus test for whether you run a business or merely a job.

Buffett's Untaxable Asset & Psychological Archetypes

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Robbins details purchasing a coal power plant in West Virginia to supply power for emerging AI data centers by spotting infrastructural demand patterns early. He shares Warren Buffett's revelation that Buffett's most profitable investment was a Dale Carnegie communication course, highlighting that personal skill is an inflation-proof asset immune to taxation. The section concludes with Robbins explaining how studying psychological archetypes transforms personal frustration into empathetic leadership.

Communication and internal competence are the only assets immune to government taxation and inflation.
Appreciating diverse psychological wiring prevents relational conflict and enhances leadership influence.

Reveals high-level investment thinking from Warren Buffett and practical psychology frameworks.

Key points

The Hierarchy of Pattern Mastery — Mastery progresses through three stages: pattern recognition (erasing fear by understanding historical cycles), pattern utilization (applying those lessons strategically), and pattern creation (inventing original solutions like industry leaders).
Marketplace Value Over Equal Souls — While humans hold equal value as souls, economic compensation is purely dictated by the rarity and value of the skills one delivers to the marketplace.
Self-Employed Operator vs. True Business Owner — Operators keep tight control, underpay, and do all tasks themselves, trapping themselves in demanding self-employment, whereas true owners build autonomous systems and allow teams to learn through mistakes.
Personal Skill as an Untaxable Asset — Direct investment in communication and core competency yields the highest return because internal capabilities cannot be taxed, confiscated, or eroded by currency collapse.

“Good times create weak people.” — Tony Robbins

“Pattern recognition gives you power. Pattern utilization gives you real power. And pattern creation makes you a master of something.” — Tony Robbins

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What would you say that one thing is

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that the people that end up changing

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successfully have that those who don't

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end up changing lack?

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>> Hunger. Hunger and relentlessness. What

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I found is there are a lot of wickedly

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smart people that can't fight the way of

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a paper bag. It's the person whose

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hunger does not go away. The hunger to

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be more, do more, give more, share more,

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create more. And it's not hunger to get

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to just a goal. It's it's an insatiable

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hunger, but they also have the

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relentlessness to push through all the

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obstacles that come up. So I always hear

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people say, "Well, the system is working

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against me. Is this a a systemic

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imbalance? Right? Heck no. The system's

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always out of balance. You don't

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understand. You haven't lived long

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enough to see how it works. So, when I

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was your generation, interest rates were

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18%. And I'm hearing people bitching

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about 6%, right? I had no money. I grew

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up with nothing. I had four different

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fathers. We didn't have food and

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Thanksgiving. The reason I provided a

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billion meals in 10 years, now I'm doing

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62 billion meals I've done in three

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years. The reason I got driven to do

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that is cuz I was hungry, right? cuz I

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didn't have that kind of being taken

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care of. My fathers didn't know what the

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hell they were doing.

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>> Were some people born with that hunger?

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Because sometimes you just see it

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lacking in somebody. What caused

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>> most people I'll tell you the history of

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the world in in four sentences. Good

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times create weak people. You can study

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a thousand years of Roman history. You

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can study 500 years of Anglo-American

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history. I highly recommend if you guys

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really want a perspective to help your

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generation, you should read the fourth

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turning or the book generations. Two

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great books, Strauss and how. I was

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working with the president of the United

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States, Bill Clinton. In those days, I

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worked with him because I'm an

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independent. And then I went across the

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street and I worked with the head of the

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house, Gingrich, who was a Republican.

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And both men had this book on their

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desks. The president had it and so did

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Gingrich, right? And Gingri is

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historian. So, I read the book and it

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was one of the most valuable books of my

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life because it put everything it showed

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me that there are seasons to everything.

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And so, I I was waking up in a in a

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winter season. I was coming of age, 18,

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19 years old in a winter season. 78, 18%

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interest rates. So, I studied my ass

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off. I figured out I made a hundred

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offers on pieces of real estate. 99 said

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no. That's actually 103. 103rd one said

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yes. I bought this piece of real estate.

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Try to make money at 18% on a piece of

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real estate. Good luck. Right? But I all

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I knew is real estate was the way that

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you could build wealth. I grew up from

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nothing. Right? But what happened was

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then I had somebody I hired. It was so

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far away the place I bought. I hired a

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little local management company to

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manage the place and they called me one

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day and said, "Well, a guy said that one

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of the stairs broke and he fell and he

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wants $100,000." That was kind of me. I

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didn't have that. I could have just let

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that end me, but I I was relentless, you

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know. I was like, "Okay, I'm going to

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learn. This is painful. I'm going to

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learn." But the season will eventually

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change. So, think of it this way.

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There's the greatest breakthrough in

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humanity came from the understanding of

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patterns. Pattern recognition gives you

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power. Pattern utilization gives you

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real power. And pattern creation makes

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you a master of something. What do I

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mean? When you don't recognize patterns,

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you live in fear. You live in like, "Oh

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my god, the system's changed. I can't do

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it. I can't succeed." Cuz you don't

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understand that there's a pattern that's

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been around forever. It's just not in

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your lifetime that you've noticed it in

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your 15 years since college, right? Or

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or 10 or whatever it's been for you,

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right? So, as an example, when we

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figured out this thing called seasons,

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humanity went from hunter gatherers who

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couldn't survive to we could stay in one

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place. But we made one distinction.

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There's only one season you could plant

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in springtime. If you worked your tail

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off in the winter and planted, you

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didn't get the reward. So, you had to

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plant in the spring, then you had to go

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to the hard times of the summer, protect

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it, then you got reward in the spring,

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then you better hang on to some for the

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next winter. When we figured that out,

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humanity grew. That distinction of

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patterns is the most important thing for

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your life. You have a pattern of where

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you are right now in your lives, both of

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you. If you're zero to say 21 years old,

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you're in springtime. Tell me, is things

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hard to grow in spring or easy?

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>> Easy.

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>> Very easy. Right. If you start a

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business in springtime, you think you're

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a genius. You're full of All it is is

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you're in the right place at the right

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time. And when the season changes,

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that's what thins it out. So, if you

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were to sum up and provide some specific

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advice to someone out there, some real

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world application advice, someone that's

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a little bit younger, they're in that

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like up to 20 age or they're in the next

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season, feeling a little jaded, a little

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dejected, what is some real world

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application

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things that they can do to to reverse

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the way that they feel about the world

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to actually become someone that they are

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proud of being, someone that's

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productive and and positive.

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>> I'd say two things. uh what Jim Ran

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taught me, my original teacher, when I

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asked him about why my fathers were

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broke, right? He said, "If you want to

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have success in your life, stop asking

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what you can get and worrying about what

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you're going to get and focus on what

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you're going to give. If you give more

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value than anybody else in the

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marketplace, you will dominate the

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marketplace." He asked me at one point

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because I was saying, "Why did my dads

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four of my fathers? They were suffering.

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They didn't have enough money for food."

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And he said, "Tony, we're equal as

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souls, but we're not equal in the

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marketplace. So if you want to have a

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balance, economic balance for starters,

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you got to actually invest in yourself

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to get the skills that will give you the

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advantage over someone else instead of

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saying how the system's not supporting

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you because that mindset attitude isn't

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self-fulfilling.

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Second I'd say is you've got to become a

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student of history. We don't study

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history at all because you know it it's

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not the same but it rhymes as you've

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heard right there are patterns that are

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so clear. Those three skill sets I told

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you are the most important skill sets I

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want my grandkids to have. Anybody have

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pattern recognition of anything? If you

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can recognize patterns, you can learn

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quickly and you will not be in fear

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because it won't feel like it's random

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things happening to you. But you have to

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do your homework. You can't go online

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and just let somebody tell you who's

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pitching to you because they're afraid

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they're not doing well enough that the

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system's rigged against them. You got to

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look at the people that actually have

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succeeded and find out what's going on

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in their life, what they went through to

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get that pattern. And so that's what I

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did early on. I went I studied history.

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I studied everything I could on

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psychology because that's basically what

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shapes all human beings. And then I

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shaped myself around business. And if

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those three skills for me were the most

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important skills

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>> are some people unfixable.

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>> Well, yeah. If you have no desire to

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improve your life, you're not going to

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improve your life. Of course. Now you

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the truth is life will show up at some

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point and get you to make a demand.

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You'll have something that happens in

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your life. You'll have somebody in your

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family that gets ill. You'll have an

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economic thing will happen. You'll have

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a co and your business will be shut

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down. You'll have life always is calling

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us to grow in some way. And so you

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doesn't matter who you are. If you don't

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do it proactively, it'll happen

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reactively. But I but what I'd also say

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to you really is if you notice if you

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understand these three skills, pattern

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recognition, pattern utilization, that's

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where the power comes. You see somebody

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who's great in investing, they don't

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just recognize the patterns, they know

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how to use them. Right? I'm not talking

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about betting the money on one thing and

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hoping. That's not investing, right?

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That's that's, you know, basically

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betting. That's a vetting process,

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right?

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>> Um, if you really start to understand

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anything and you start to master the

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patterns, understand them, use them, and

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then eventually you'll create them, like

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playing someone's piano, you learn

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someone else's music first, right?

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Because they've already perfected it.

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That's what modeling is. But if you do

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it long enough and you were committed

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enough, all of a sudden, you will come

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through. Now you're a pattern creator.

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If you look at somebody who's a goat in

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their industry, I don't care if it's in

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sports or business or anything else,

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it's because they're a pattern creator.

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And so if you just model everybody else,

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you'll succeed, right? Find the pattern

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that works and do it. But if you start

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doing that enough with enough different

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people, you're going to discover there's

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answers in you that don't exist anywhere

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else. You are a unique human being. You

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have something to bring to the table,

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but it takes time. Most entrepreneurs in

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the beginning of their career are

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operators.

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Operators do everything. They try to

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keep everything as tight as possible.

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They hire the best person they know

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themselves. Then they hire the next best

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person they can do. But the best person

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they know they hire, they also don't pay

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them enough usually because it's their

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business to make it go. And you get

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stuck in a certain plateau unless you

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get to a point like the reason I have

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all these businesses. How could I

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possibly run 114 businesses, have five

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kids, five grandkids, travel the world,

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do my speaking, do all the things I do,

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have a life. If I was an operator, I'm

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an owner. So, I've learned how to be an

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owner. An owner is somebody I've learned

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how to build teams that can do those

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things. But to do that, I had to go

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through the process that most young

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entrepreneurs don't do, which is, you

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know, you can do it better than somebody

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else. You do it yourself. And so, as

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long as you do that, then no one else

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can make the mistakes. They can't learn.

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They can't grow. And you're tied to the

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business. So, your business is really a

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paid job, a very paid job. Maybe a

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highly w paid job, but it's a job still.

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It's not a business till you can walk

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away for a month or two and do nothing,

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have it keep growing.

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>> So, you have to decide if you want a job

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or if you want a business. And there's

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nothing wrong with having a, you know,

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is a independent, you know, someone

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who's uh owns their own business is

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that's what they call it. But usually

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what that person is, they're

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self-employed would be a more accurate

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description. If you own a business, then

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you have a system that works without

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you.

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>> What's been your best financial

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investment? I think probably a um I

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bought a power plant um in West Virginia

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because I saw what was happening with AI

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coming and the need for data centers and

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it was a coal power plant that they were

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shutting down and I saved all the jobs

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and uh and that investments returns

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ridiculous.

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>> How did you find that?

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>> Um because I was I'm always studying the

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trends right again you're not going to

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do anything unless you become a student.

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You got to become a student of personal

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development because if you don't grow

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it's like I I remember you asked me a

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question my best investment I asked that

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to uh Warren Buffett and Warren said

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Tony it's what you do. I said what are

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you talking about? He goes he said he

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invested in Dale Carnegie

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>> because I invested in Dale Carnegie. He

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said most important investment I've ever

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made in my life. He said because

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otherwise my ideas would have dropped

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out but I learned how to communicate my

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ideas. Otherwise you wouldn't know who I

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am.

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>> He goes and he said the most important

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investment you can ever make is in

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yourself. He actually did a big tirade

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on this two years ago. It was on one of

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his one of his talks and he said, "Look,

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here's the best part about this

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investment. No one can tax it." Like

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your skills keep growing and no one can

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take any piece of that. If if dollar

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goes crazy and it goes to nothing and we

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got shekels, you'll get the most shekels

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if you're the most skilled lawyer, the

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most skilled investor, the most skilled,

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whatever the case may be. He said the

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investment in yourself is always the

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first and most important investment. I I

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believe that's true. So there's these

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patterns in the mind that are really

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critical to understand because they help

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you understand how people are wired

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differently and instead of being

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frustrated with them especially if you

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have kids that's when it'll really be

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interesting for you it'll help you go oh

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no they're wired differently in this

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area and then you can find different

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advantages like in Chinese medicine they

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have different arc types that they use

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they have some people are water some

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people are fire they have different

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qualities and some of them you may not

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you not relate to but when you

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understand these five arc types you're

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able to go oh Well, that's that's the

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water in my life, you know. I I get it.

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I'm not like that. But you begin to

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build an appreciation, excuse me, versus

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a judgment. The more you can understand

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about human psychology, the more you can

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not only get along with people, you can

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have positive influence with people, you

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can meet their needs, which really makes

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them happy and you happy, and the more

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you can grow a business if that's

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important to you.

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>> Thank you. This is honestly this funny

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conversation.

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>> I've been looking forward to this for a

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very long time to be able to shake your

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hand and have you on.

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>> Oh, thank you.

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>> Seriously.

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