كيف تطلعين من طاقة الانتظار وتعيشين ملكة؟ 👑✨️

Hello and welcome to all the beauties who follow me Today you showed me in a new video And I wish from the bottom of my heart that you and I will be in the best condition Comfortably and comfortably to the fullest Today we will talk about a topic that can be said to change the life of a girl completely if you understand it The topic is self-assurance or self-assurance

How can we make sure that your identity is kept within your own depth without anyone's permission? Why do we, girls in particular, always wait for the end and approval from outside? Why do we need people to pass by us and tell us you're pretty or you're smart? Or we're proud of you because we feel like we really have these qualities.

Why don't we just go away? Today, we're going to break this knot one by one and promise you This video is of the kind where you enter it with personality and thinking and you come out of it with a completely different personality Stronger, more confident, and more peace inside Imagine with me, my beauty, that the biggest soft blow that any girl in the world can fall into

is that it becomes unconsciously addicted to what people want or praise or praise its appearance and behavior. This bias comes in a very hidden way. You don't feel it. No one will warn you unless you're deaf in its existence. Let's take a living example from our daily reality to understand the situation.

You wake up every day, wearing the best clothes you have in your closet, matching the colors, wearing a light and neat jewelry, going to work or university, and you're full of energy. Let's suppose you've been through a golden and ideal week.

What happens in this situation?

Your inner mind, without you feeling it, gets used to these daily urges of praise and attention and makes itself a basic meal. Suddenly, the week goes by and you come out and you're interested in yourself, the same attention you were interested in. Dressed, dressed, and dressed. But, the day passes by normally. No one said a word. No one looked at you.

No one will give you that feeling that raises the happiness hormone. Here, you start to have a real psychological disorder. You start to doubt yourself and your appearance. And you say between you and the mirror, Am I a woman today? Did people get rid of me and get rid of my face? Maybe the dress is not nice on me. Maybe I need to change my way or buy more expensive beauty products to get back the attention. Oh my beauty.

At this moment, you have linked your mood, your mood and your full value as a human being to something outside your limits of control, which is the eyes of people and their prosperity for you. And this is the real addiction that destroys psychological stability. You live your whole day to wait for the surprise and the red hearts in social media.

or the nice word in the past. If you have more interaction in daily stories and publications, you feel like you're the queen of the universe. And if you have less interaction and the account is quiet, you feel like you're nothing and you have no value. This is self-confidence forever.

This is a name that is unrivaled in the taste of people who change every second according to their mood and circumstances. The big question that we must sit down with ourselves and ask with all honesty and courage is why are we, great women, beautiful women,

We give power and influence to people we don't know, and they don't know our story. Unfortunately, we have been programmed since childhood, from TV shows and from society, that our values as girls are always related to how the outside world sees us. Are we wanted in the relationship market?

Are we walking with the trend of the season? The first and essential step to free ourselves from this prison is to strongly withdraw this authority from under their feet and return it to its natural and unique place. To your religion and under your behavior.

You must understand and understand, my beauty, that your constant value has nothing to do with a man's desire for you or a value view of another woman for you at a party or a Friday.

Especially when it comes to men's attention, you see that there is a lot of things available and available everywhere, and there is no standard for distinction at all. I mean, if someone is on the street, or in a car, or in a big place, try to attract your attention or attract you. Do you think inside you that you are the only magical girl who did this with her? Of course not. And let's be realistic.

He usually does it with dozens of other girls on the same day and in the same way. So if he gave you attention, that doesn't mean you're more special than the rest of the people. And if he didn't look at you, that doesn't mean you're lacking or you're lacking. The man who follows everything and spreads his right and left eyes, that's not a measure of your beauty or the qualities of your character. So please, with special hope.

Don't let any random word or random look from someone hurt you in your life. Decide whether your day will be happy or sad. You are greater and greater than just a temporary reaction to their daily actions. When you start thinking and looking at things in this conscious way, as if there was a heavy veil covering your eyes and allowing the confusion to control you,

and suddenly you will see the world and relationships more clearly and cleanly. You will not wear and get tired because someone likes your style, nor will you act and speak in a certain way to please men, or you will walk according to the positive memory that the girl always wants in a certain mold to satisfy their desires.

And more importantly, your pocket money and your bank account will be able to rest comfortably. Do you know that the world's capital and commercial system benefits billions from not being self-sufficient and being normal? Yes, I swear to God.

They make me write messages that point out that I'm lacking, and my skin needs to be adjusted, and my skin needs a treatment, and my eyes need a magnifying glass. To sell you creams that you don't need at all. And they force you to do beautiful operations for imaginary flaws that they invented. And they offer you services that no one in life has.

When you confirm your self-worth, sit with yourself and fully believe that you are enough and complete, you break this terrifying consumer circle. You save your money, you save your effort, and most importantly, you protect your psychological health from anxiety.

You won't be left behind a beautiful doll or a strange fashion trend just to show off your desire for society. Your beauty, your property, you alone is not a means to show off your wealth nor a tool to please the market or to please the changing view of society. This is the point, girls, especially, I want you to open your eyes and ears and focus on it constantly because it is essential.

Please, let your external beauty and appearance be the least thing in you and the last attribute you pay attention to. I know the words may seem strange and shocking to some, but listen to me with your heart and mind. If you link all your values with your beauty and appearance only, you will be able to achieve a lot.

You have officially signed a long-term contract with constant anxiety and stress. Why? Because external beauty is naturally something unexpected. It changes as you age, as you get tired, as you get pregnant, as you give birth, as you get sick, and as you get stressed. The girl who only depends on her appearance is always living in horror.

and feel threatened by any other girl who walks in the place and is prettier than her or younger than her. You always find her in a fierce competition, comparisons and stress, oh my God.

Oh my beauty, if you were just pretty and empty inside, you would open the door to people's struggles and depression. They would play with you and practice emotional and psychological play.

A smart, smart person comes to you, knowing from the beginning that you're a fool in your group, and you're waiting for the compliment, and he starts to compare you to other girls, or reduce your compliment, to shake your confidence completely and control your decisions.

It always makes you feel insecure and doubtful about your place in it to ensure that you are under its control and try to please it in all ways. But when you have a wise mind and a high culture and a pleasant and pure soul, the beauty here becomes just a nice addition and a painting on the wall. It is not the foundation that makes the house beautiful.

They say in ancient tales that beauty and stupidity do not meet, and if they meet in one person, it is a disaster and a disaster. Oh beauty, if you are the beauty of the form, you must necessarily be smart and aware of the weaknesses of the rest. Beauty by nature is like a magnet.

يجدب الانتباه السريع والكل يبي يقرب منك والصالح والطالح يبي يدخل دائرتك بس إذا ما كان عندك مصفات دكاء قوية وفلتر حذر ما راح تفرقين أبدا بين الشخص الصادق اللي يبي مصلحتك ويحب روحك

and between the arrogant person who wants you as a face or as a shape or a beautiful piece that he puts on his friends and finishes his work and throws you and smashes you. There are people who enter your life with hidden intentions just to take from your energy and time and your innocence. Not to add any value or support to you.

If you're not conscious and intelligent and know how to analyze personalities and set strict limits, your beauty can turn into a cause that destroys your life instead of helping you. Don't be an easy prize and in the middle of anyone knocking on the door. Be a fortress and a companion of the past with your intelligence and your mind. And beauty, let it be the external decoration that makes the walls of this fortress look like it's from outside.

Banaat, there's an old program that we inherited through generations in novels and stories that says that the beautiful girl is the big prize or the princess sleeping in the tower waiting for a brave hero on a white horse to win her and break her magic.

This idea kills your physical and practical ambition, and you bury it while you're alive. You find a girl, mashallah, who has mental and intellectual abilities, who is qualified to become a successful businesswoman, or a promising doctor, or a writer and an artist in her field. But because she's beautiful, and everyone around her, when she's young, tells her, you don't need to tire yourself. You just marry, and your things will be easier, and everyone will serve you.

توقف عن السعي وتتكاسل تحس أن جمالها كافي ووافي لإسعادها وتأمين مستقبلها يا جميلتي الجمال وحده ما يفتح مشاريع مستدامة ولا يبني فكر ناضج ولا يواجه أزمات الحياة الصعبة والتقلبات المالية أو الصحية استغلي كل القدرات والمواهب والإمكانيات الكامنة المتفونة عندك

Read books, learn new skills, work on developing yourself daily. Don't treat yourself as a form or an item, waiting for someone to buy it or win it in the end. Treat yourself as a human being, independent, complete, strong, and with a fingerprint in the world. Do you know what is the most beautiful and deepest feeling a girl can experience in her entire life? It is that she reaches the stage of complete satisfaction and inner peace about herself.

As an integrated group, just right with itself. When I say an integrated group, I don't mean just the details of your face, your body, your weight, your height. I mean your beautiful soul, your mind, and the way you think. Your many mistakes you made in the past and suffered from them. Your failed experiences that passed you. And the harsh lessons you learned and came out of them strong.

I now, if someone comes and tells me, change your life and your details with the most beautiful and richest woman in the world, I say no. With the highest voice and with all confidence. Not because I see myself more beautiful than her standards.

But simply because I am satisfied and proud of the current version I am on. With all its flaws, features and integrity. Imagine if there was a big wooden box in the world, where they would collect all the problems, worries and flaws of people. And they would say to you, come and put your problem and your flaw in the box.

and take the problem and the problem of someone else in the group Believe me, you will take your problem and your problem and you laugh and be happy Because you simply got used to it and lived with it and you knew how to deal with it and volunteer it for your own good

This is the confirmation of the true value of self and the cure for all psychological problems. I love myself in all my details, good and bad, and I don't want to be a copy of anyone else on this planet.

This next point is very painful and can hurt some of you. But we must say it and face it with courage. Sometimes, the most people we expect to be evaluated, praised, and recognized for our achievements are the closest people to us. Our family at home or our close friends whom we consider the "box of our secrets". We have been sitting for years, running and fighting

But we wait to see the pride and pride in their eyes. And when this sight comes, or they meet us cold, we get crushed and feel that we have failed. Oh my beauty, you must understand the rule in relationships. That the thing you consider a great achievement and you worked hard for it,

They might see life as a simple and ordinary thing and not worth it. Why? Simply because they haven't experienced the details of your daily suffering. They haven't even entered your mind. Imagine a girl suffering from a severe phobia and fear and social terrorism that prevents her from meeting people.

and after a long psychological struggle, she decided to stop her memory and travel alone on a solo trip to another country. For her and her mentality, this is a great achievement, a great celebration and a great party. But when she returns and tells her family, they might greet her coldly and say, What's the matter? It's normal, all people travel and go and come. What's new?

They don't know about the war that was inside your head. They don't know about the quick heartbeats in the airport, and the fear and tears you faced alone in the room. That's why don't ask them to make you tired and evaluate your steps by your standards. You become the first and the best for yourself.

You become the person who warms himself with heat in the empty room. And you look at the mirror with all pride. Bravo, hero. You worked hard, and you did it, and you came back safe.

The last thing I want to conclude with you, my beautiful ladies and gentlemen, is that you are going out and freeing yourself completely and without going back from the energy of waiting and the awareness of sacrifice. Don't wait for your ex or the person you have a relationship with to come back to apologize and make you feel that you were valuable and worthy. Don't wait for an official apology from someone who was wrong about you.

and grow to feel your dignity and value. Don't wait for your boss to pass by and praise your report to feel that you are a smart and creative employee. If you are sitting at the waiting line and expecting a response, you have given them all the tools, the key to your happiness and your psychological calm, to control them remotely.

Jumal. Al-hayat temsi b'sura'a wa maa tintadhar ahad.

And the one who doesn't know your value and who is covering you today is the loser. The big loser is not you at all. And don't live in the role and awareness of the victim who is always complaining and spitting her luck in every gathering. Just so people look at her with a look of sympathy and say to her, oh poor thing, oh haram, what happened to you?

The word poor is the worst and cheapest form of external emotion and confirmation you can take in your life. Because it takes the energy of power from you. You are not poor.

You are a strong, mature, and capable girl with all the willpower to change your reality and make your life your own. Oh my beauty, I have reached the end of this story. And I hope from all my heart and soul that these words will be a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a touch, a

and change something simple in your own perspective. Confirming self-worth is not just a statement of creation that we say and hear in videos. It is a daily, continuous exercise and jihad that we love ourselves with sincerity.

and give it the full right to exist, and to be distinguished, and to be wrong, and to be right, without asking permission or being rejected by anyone in this world. Thank you for listening to me with kindness. And thank you very much for your precious time that you spent with me today. And before you close the video and go to continue your day, I would like to ask you a very deep question.

I want you to think about it and write me a true answer in the comments below. If you wake up in the morning and suddenly find yourself living on an abandoned island, no one around you is human, no one sees you, no one can judge you or praise you, what are you doing to yourself and to yourself?

and with an improvement due to its great pride, completely away from the eyes of people and their desire. I love you so much and in an unimaginable way. And don't forget to subscribe to the channel and activate the notification bell so that you don't miss our questions and our upcoming topics.

كوني دايما بخير وكوني أنت النسخة الحقيقية الشجاعة يا جميلتي مع السلامة وفأمان الله