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Formula Manifesting untuk Karier, Rezeki & Jodoh #KPODS

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will broadcast this frequency and the universe language is the same frequency will attract each other so it's useless to try until half dead try until half dead if he is not sure that he will be successful when I study again the science of law of attraction there it immediately clicks like that this is not about working it's not about hard work

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This is the question of who are you? What do you think? What's in your mind? And what do you believe? When the belief is in line with the feeling of gratitude and combined with the purpose, our manifestation will happen accurately.

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Welcome to KeePots Unlocking the Better You. Today we will be talking about self-development. With a motivator, Ms. Hayroma. Hi, Ms. Hayroma. - Hello. - Thank you for coming here.

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I'm very excited. Yes, me too. Because I saw your content. Okay. Then, you talked a lot about the Law of Attraction. Yes, it is. Yes, this is one of the things that I quite believe in. I quite do it too. But sometimes, it seems like there are many loopholes. Okay. In me. Later we will discuss whether this is my opinion or the pattern or what. Okay. But maybe, Sis.

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What I want to ask first, maybe for people who don't know, what is LOA or Law of Attraction? Is it like a manifestation or is it practical or is it legal or what? Okay. Actually, why do I really, really introduce the LOA?

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It's like this, hard work is not enough. Okay. Hard work is not enough. Meanwhile, the universe is not about morality, not about kindness, not about who is the most extraordinary action. But about what is inside of one. Inside of one is energy. That energy comes from the emotions that are inside of human beings. And this will generate vibration with frequency. Which is conveyed to our brain.

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Our brain will broadcast this frequency. And the universe language is the same frequency will attract each other. So, just trying until half dead, trying until half dead, if he is not sure if he will succeed. He always says, "I'm successful, I'm successful." But he thinks, "I don't think so. Where is the way?"

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What actions are they doing? They're hesitating, lazy, and hesitating. It's influenced by the energy, sis. And when I can understand why the energy is so influential when I become a wajul, I feel like, wow.

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What did I not get tired of in OJOL? Oh, you've been to OJOL? What did I not get tired of in OJOL? I did everything. Maybe I can mention the brand. Another podcast. Sure. In my previous podcast, the one in Ngaji Rosso, I also explained what I've done. Everything is physical. I'm tired of everything. But there's no such thing as energy games.

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But there is a pattern that is the same. When I feel happy, when I feel the incredible gratitude, when I am sincere, the sustenance is sharpening. Here I started to find out why even in the Qur'an it is also mentioned, the more my servant is grateful, the more I will add. Why? Why?

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When I learned about Law of Attraction again, I immediately clicked. "Oh, this is not about working." It's not about hard work. It's about who are you? What do you think? What's in your mind? And what you believe? What do you believe in? What do you believe in? What do you believe in?

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In short, the bold is "Who are you?" This book is also from Napoleon Hill. And please read the English version. Okay. But it means, you mentioned there's also vibration and frequency. This is maybe a new term. As far as I know, vibration is

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- It's visible from what we do. - Right. If we talk about the frequency, how is it? Because if we want to be successful, as we mentioned, - the frequency has to be the same. - Right. - It has to be interesting. - Yes. What is frequency? Vibration is something that we can see physically, right? It vibrates. When it vibrates, it releases a frequency. So we can't actually see the frequency. It's the same as...

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Can we see electromagnetic signals? No. Friends who watch this video use electromagnetic signals from the internet, for example. Radio is also like that. Do we believe in them? We believe because there is a physical. We have the physical. This? But why don't we believe it? Then why is it wasted? Why isn't it used?

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So, if we see someone, is their vibration good or is their frequency high? Or what if it's someone else? - It's high frequency, low frequency. - There is. - What does that mean? - We're spilling it. - Okay. Is their vibration good? - It's good.

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Vibration is a continuation of energy. A person has good energy from how he speaks. How he thinks. How he responds. And what he does. Most of the time when I see successful people, they are courageous. They have high energy. Courageous energy is only owned by people who have high energy. Oh, okay. - Steadfast.

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People who are not comfortable will not be comfortable with people who are firm. It won't fit. It won't be the same. The frequency is different. I see. So that's why it doesn't fit, it seems the vibes. Oh yes, it's often now. Yes, because from the beginning the energy is not mixed.

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- It's not suitable. - So it's true, right? We often meet people, we don't know, we don't have any mistakes, we haven't interacted, but it feels like, "I don't think I'm suitable." The smell is different sometimes. - That means it's really there, it can be felt. - Yes, it is. And one day later, when you meet him, for example, for example, at first we meet him, our energy doesn't suit him because our energy is low.

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When we start to adjust ourselves, meet with him, then suddenly we fit. Of course, friends, I've experienced this. I experienced it. At first, I didn't fit with this person. But when I changed myself, when I learned to fit, what happened? It turns out there's something wrong with my mindset.

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So, sorry if we don't fit in with someone, let's see who is wrong. Is it our mindset? Is it our behavior? Or what? Oh, right. This is important because sometimes we feel like we don't fit in because we don't fit in. But the important point is, oh, maybe there's something wrong with our way of thinking. There's something wrong with our behavior.

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Jangan langsung seuzon. Betul. Setuju. Setuju. Setuju. Aku pun sering kayak gitu. Masih sering jatuh ke dalam hal kayak gitu. Sama aku juga kadang. Tapi ini.

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This is an important reminder for me or for those who are listening. The difference is with manifestation, this is also in my opinion, sometimes overused in social media. If we see something, manifesting my life in 10 years, for example. - Oh, that's a lot. - Yes, or a manifestation that is usually material, like a car, etc. Is that the same as the Law of Attraction or not?

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I'll give you an example. Do you believe that you'll get money in a short time? Just 1 million rupiah. 1 million rupiah. Do you believe it? No, not anymore. How can you succeed in manifesting? Manifesting is like being self-sufficient. We know what we want, we believe it, and we believe it will come. It doesn't matter where it comes from.

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It's like we're trying to get our fortune if we think about where it's coming from. I've said this a thousand times wherever I go, whether it's a seminar, live, podcast, here or in Ngaji Rose, I've said it before. When we want something, we have to be sincere. Sincere is either from the way, or from the nominal, or from how it can be successful or not.

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Whether it's successful or not, we're all being taught. We're like, we already know it's going to come. For example, we want to be BMW, but Mercedes is coming. We don't know, right? It's good. So, there are two opinions. We're lucky and we're really lucky. If we don't get caught, how do we get karma? That means you're lucky, you get learning.

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Oh, so you mean not all the protests are different from what we expected? Because you don't believe it. For example, I said earlier, "Do you believe you won't get 21 million tomorrow?" I don't know. I don't believe it. How do you feel? How did you succeed? How? I started to stop thinking like that about a year ago. I said, "Oh my God, Biko, I'm bored with this salary." Starting with the knowledge of awareness first, right? Awareness first.

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We know we want it. We know we're enough. That's called consciousness. And this can only be done by people. Maybe it's a bit silly, but spiritual awakening.

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What is that? - Insadar, spiritually. - Yes. Okay, okay. Yes, 80% of it. But the smaller one is that she feels like she's a whore. She feels like she's a whore in this life. Enough. And I've experienced it. The first one, I'm a whore. Is this rude if I say I'm a whore? It's okay. But it means, I mean, the picture is, it means we really want to move from this situation. - Yes, enough. - Yes, yes. Oh God, enough. Enough, please.

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Like when I was in Wacol, I felt, "Oh my God, I've learned, I'm enough." Enough. Enough here. Then I said, "I remember, this is one straight line, right? There's a good knowledge here, boy." Please take a note. So when the belief is in line with the feeling of gratitude and combined with the goal, our manifestation will occur as accurately as Earth's gravity.

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- It's certain. - Yes. So I was sure, "Oh, Ya Allah, Ya Rabbiku, I think I've learned enough here. I think I've learned enough from this OJOL. For how humans, how the friendship between above and below, service, and all that. I feel like I've learned enough and I need more. I want to learn more from others. I even said, "Ya Allah, Ya Rabbiku, I want this much income. It's good, Ya Allah, Ya Tuhanku."

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- Exactly. The nominal. - Right. It has to be. The nominal has to be there. Maybe, I told you about 7 million yesterday. Many commented, "Oh well, it's only 7 million." But the problem is, for people who don't work at all, and work in a hurry, 7 million is big enough. I don't have any standards. I do business, but most companies don't see what I do in business.

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But you actually graduated from college, right? Yes, I did. I can say that I graduated from economics. I graduated from economics.

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But I finished there until the third semester. Oh. Yes. At that time, I worked there a lot. I worked there a lot. A lot. But you finished your degree? In the S1 Arts Department. Oh, S1 Arts Department. And this, I realized it, if I manifest it through speech. How is it, Kak? Maybe you know. But if you know, the event will be over in my life. Hahaha.

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Oh, it's called P. From this event, it's called P. From the letter P. I don't want to tell you. Then, when I saw the event, I said like this. I always involve Allah SWT, like, Ya Allah, Ya Rabbiku. It's nice, Ya Allah. I can sit there while clapping my hands. Directly. Coincidence. It happens. Coincidence happens, Kakak.

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Even though there was no Hojol, no other online taxi. Not yet, not yet in Jakarta. Maybe there is, but my phone is not yet capable. So I took it up. First I took the Angkot, then I took the Transjakarta, then I went down to, I don't have to say the name. Because it's far from where you're from. Yes, to the TV station. I was present there, clapping my hands there.

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I want to see the person that I want to see. Okay. But if we want to practice,

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We give case studies, not case studies, for example, I want to go to a foreign school. What do I have to do? If you want to go to a foreign school, find out where you want to go. Okay, for example, I've got it. Okay, the name of the school. Yes, the name and the class, for example, there is already this. Okay, then? Do you want it for free or do you want to pay? Oh okay, for example, you've got it too, student loan, blah blah blah. What student loan?

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How many years old are you? - Oh, that's how old I am? - Yes, that's how old you are. And when you want to be. At what age. That's how old you have to be. I'm afraid that Allah will accept it in two years. - Yes, that's right. But it's not that old. - Right. I'm afraid that Allah will accept it and say, "It turns out that the path is independent if we don't say it's a scholarship." We don't know, right?

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And I have to say, it has to be in S1. I'm afraid it's going to be accepted by the creator in S2. It's going to be a long time. So it has to be detailed.

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Very, very detailed. So after we have the concept, I want to go here, this class, this school, with this student ID, this date, etc. So there will be a sense of gratitude in the second one. Yes, it's imagined. Okay. This can be a reminder. If we already know what we want in very, very detail, if you can't visualize it, it's not coming true.

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So if we close our eyes, we can imagine what we want in very, very detailed way, like what we write, then it's real. Allah is the Most Good. Don't be fooled. We will never be able to think about how the Creator accepts what we want.

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Don't let anyone comment, ala bacot. - Oh my. - Yes, yes, yes. There are many like that sometimes. Because it's like this, like earlier, when you asked, "Do you believe that we'll get one million tomorrow?" If we think logically, even though we're not that smart, that believe in science, and all that, but we think more like,

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Okay.

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For example, I'm also a brand ambassador for Boss Guild. Boss Guild's breakfast. Try it, it tastes good. - At least. - Promo. So for me, who is not a celebrity, suddenly offered to be an ambassador brand, and then own a stock there, that's to be true. It's impossible. What did you do until you finally got it? I don't know. Do you know where it came from? I'll give you a little bit of a spiel.

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I was live. The wife of this boss, a big boss, was listening to my live. Suddenly, when I was discussing energy, she listened. She invited me to a meeting, and she met me. That's the magic. - That's the same as the relationship. - Yes. That's the magic, isn't it, Cassandra? It's a miracle. We've never met, we've never done this, and she offered it to me. Make it come. Come to Boski, Roma.

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But did you ever think about that in your mind before? No, but I said, "I want to achieve this much." And this is the way. Yes, that's why I said to Cassandra, "Never think about it." Don't ever think about how. Our job is only, first, you know what you want. Yes. Be grateful. Okay. Confident. Sincere. Self-love and business. The last business. The last business, right? Yes.

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People will think, "How can you make money if you don't work hard?" There are some, but at the end, you have to be happy first. You have to have a good frequency. If someone says, "Hard work is... The harder you work, the richer you are." That's a lie. - So what if... - Do you know? The higher the salary, the less you work. Really? The salary is high, you can pay people. Right. But the responsibility is higher. No. People are responsible. Just make the bottom up.

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- You don't believe me, right? - She's being scolded by the CEO. And then the office goes bankrupt. - Is it? - The bottom part. - It goes bankrupt? - Yes, she's like, "Oh, I'm the one who has to supervise." That's from our point of view from the bottom. From the top, we don't know, right?

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There are so many POVs. There are so many POVs, right, Sandra? I stopped seeing something from one direction. 360 degrees, right? When we see something. Sarah can see my front, but can she see my hair tie behind? No. - No? Same. When someone says, "Oh, big salary, big responsibility." Who says that? But does that mean you don't feel it? - I already feel it because the bigger it is,

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The more natural it is, the lighter it is. Because we can give others a chance. "Please help me with this part." "Please help me with this part." "This part, this part, this part." Something like that. But I'm not talking about the lazy people. If there's a lazy person, they do all the work. That's why the letter K, O, R, U, F, S, I, there are many branches. So what? The easier it is. - That's a different case. - But it's frequency.

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: I'm talking about it. Frequency doesn't talk about morality. : But maybe he wants to manifest money through that too, right? : Yes. Money hundreds of thousands. Turns out there is a way. That's the way. : That's good, sis. If that's the case, sis. : I've already said that frequency is

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Not playing with morals Oh not playing with morals Yes, that's why I realized, oh ya Allah ya Rabbiku, Allah said, "Play with your own self, do what you like, but remember there are sins and rewards."

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Frequency doesn't know the moral. Yes, so it can happen through anything, to anyone, and as big as anything. That's right, because the same frequency will attract the same frequency. They will attract each other. If I discuss more deeply about frequency, people will definitely praise me. Because it feels like, maybe I'm a bit wrong, because it feels like, why does it become

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- The concept of life is so simplified. - Yes, many people feel that they don't accept it. So, do I live with the good or am I just bad? Well, please. Sin is each person's responsibility. - That's right. So, if we go back to the manifestation, how did the manifestation

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Is there a certain way to manifest? There is. How? I'll give you a little slip. First, you can write. Write in detail. Don't be afraid, don't hesitate. Allah is the Most Good. Don't let your reality in this world, you're limited to what you want. Even in your dream world, in your paper, you're limited. Even whoever you are, whether you're a toilet cleaner, a fryer,

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Even the fried food seller has more money. I admit it. Whatever the job is, don't limit your dreams in that book. That's why I support journal writing conventionally.

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- Through a pen and paper. - Yes. Because this supports a theory by Napoleon Hill. - What is it? - Which is in line with neuroscience. In 2019, neuroscience is booming. So, Napoleon Hill said, "Every human being must have a silent time." This silent time is in line with Law of Attraction. What is a silent time, Ms. Roma? There are three.

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Yes, note it down. This is expensive knowledge, note it down. Okay. The first is to wake up and sleep. In the morning. Yes. The second is when you sleep. Want to sleep. Don't think about your ex when you want to sleep, okay? You can't get rid of it later. The third is when you're alone. Okay. This is what we have to have, right? Yes. The time, the quiet time. Yes. What is it for, sis? If we have quiet time? Opening the intelligence of humans.

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Every human being is born perfect. What makes humans perfect is not the records. The records are not physical. It's a gift from Allah SWT. It's a gift. That's what I think. So I don't want to go too far. I'm afraid it's too much. So where did it go? My concentration is easy to break. Where did it go?

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- You really forgot? - Yes. - When you were in college. - Yes, when I was in college. - Lucky for you. - Yes, that's right. - This is about intelligence. - Yes, what kind of intelligence? Believe it or not. This intelligence is what I said earlier. I even sold the book, Peta Pikiran. At first, I thought I was stupid. But it's true. I felt like I was really stupid. Why? Because you don't think fast?

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My friends have succeeded. I read the comments. There was a comment that was really touching. "So, you mean, Ojol is the lowest moment for me?" Not for other people's lives, but for me. Imagine my friends, first of all, they have a SPBU. Wow, that's rich. See? I fill the gas tank for Ojol. - Yes, yes, yes. - Really? Then he became a diplomat.

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- Oh, good. - In a foreign country, not in Indonesia, right? In a foreign country. - Isn't that cool? - Yes. And I'm sorry, because we're not as frequent, we're finally separated. Even though they're all my friends. At first I denied it, at first I was angry with them. Why? Why is it like that?

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But the more I learn about energy, the more I realize that they are right. They want to talk about work, I don't connect. They want to talk about income, I don't connect. What's more, they want to talk about this and that, I don't connect. So what's the point of being friends if you can't communicate? All relationships are about communication.

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Now I'm not angry with them anymore. Come back with me, friend. So, the time you mentioned earlier, you used it to contemplate. Yes, what is lacking from me. What is lacking? Yes, may Allah bless you, but do not leave anything in me. I open it again, like that. And from the time I made the thought map book, I made a summary.

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You can buy it from the link in my bio. This is not a promotion, no. You buy it, thank God. If you don't buy it, it's okay. I don't lose. The more successful people, the better. If it doesn't work, it's okay. This world needs balance. There are followers, there are leaders. So, make what you want to grow.

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There's a formula for how we find our genius. But I'll give you a clue, Kay. I'll repeat it again. I don't know if I'll repeat it in another podcast, until someone understands. The genius of humans is not against the flow, Kay. The one who follows the flow first. Okay?

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One of the characteristics is that we do it very, very easily. Even the easier it is, we feel that it's not an advantage. That's one. Second, when we do it because it's so easy, but the result we get from doing it is always amazing. When we do it, the result is much greater than what we've been trying to do. For example, I have a friend, I'll give you an example.

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My friend is a very good cook. He's very good at cooking. Everything he does, once he sees it, he can cook it right away. Anything, except for cakes. He can't do that, he uses mathematics. Everything he does, he can do it. Everything he cooks, it's delicious. As usual, he feels it's not even. He's looking for something else.

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That's cooking. There's one person who's so smart in matching clothes. But you're saying that the one who's smart in cooking is one of the geniuses. That's genius, sis. Oh, that's one of the geniuses. Without any effort. He just looks at it once. Oh, that's how you cook. It can be exactly the same. One to one. He just looks at it for a moment. But because it's so amazing, the result is so good, so often,

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He feels that it's not a normal thing, it's not an advantage. People always go through that. And they always do it against the grain. Not yet who, not yet know how to react, not yet have strength, not yet have a name, already fighting against the grain, dead, drowned. What does fighting against the grain mean? One example is if our genuineness is against our passion. Now, just now, the word of Allah SWT, "What you like can be bad for you, and what you don't like is good for you."

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Makes sense, right? If you ask me, "Do I like to talk?" No, I don't like to talk. But the problem is, my genius is there. Do I like socialization? No, I don't like it. But the problem is, my genius is there. So the concept is, if we know our genius or something we're good at, from there, we'll be able to make a fortune. Double double, Kak. Without effort. If you want to live easily and easily, follow the rules first.

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You already know the game of the arus. How do you do it? Fight the arus. Follow your passion. Do what you can do first. After you're strong, powerful, then you can do it. Oh, that's the way. Okay.

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Okay. So, you're saving a lot of tips. But actually, I also think, maybe why people are confused too, because it's like this, we always emphasize our thoughts, right? Like, we think, the point is that the thoughts are positive, these thoughts will bring energy and we can succeed in what we manifest. But sometimes people think,

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It means if you just think about it, there are no actions. And what's more, sometimes it's because we've thought about it and we've thought we got it, the motivation just goes down, you know, Sis? Oh, that's it. Yes, because it's just like, "Well, I've got it, I don't think I need to study too much to be able to go to international school." No, no, no. That means the action is not in line, right?

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When we know we're going there, what do we have to do? We have to be prepared. First, prepare your passport. Second, learn about the course you want to take. We have to find out where we want to live, what we have to do, what our goal is, what we have to learn. Our business is about preparing. We're preparing, not waiting. Most people wait, not prepare.

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What I do is to prepare, not to wait. I bring my writing, my notes, my journal. I prepare one day, when I'm called to a podcast, I have something to share with my friends. I don't know if I'll be invited to a podcast or not. I never think like that. But if they ask, "Will you be invited?" Yes, I am. What do I do? Prepare.

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How do you prepare for it, Roma? Me time. The quiet time. So, if I can conclude, the Law of Attraction aside from our thoughts, it means it has to meet the five that you mentioned earlier, including gratitude, and even though it's the last one, the effort still has to go on. Yes, it is.

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Because maybe people think because usually people who explain about LOI, for example, think about it. If you are able to think and visualize, it means it will be done later. So it's like, why is it so hard? Even though there is one important thing, actions must still go on. Yes, but most humans must say like this, "Oh, it's still necessary to try." Not really.

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- Can our business go down? - It can't. I can tell, if I read your book, "Law of Mirror". I can tell. You must be independent, right? - Gosh. - Very, very independent. Everything you do by yourself, right? - Yes, I have to. - Right? - Losing. - Yes. And this mindset makes you feel that whatever you want, you have to try. But it's not.

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You want it, you got it. What matters is you know what you want. You know. Just do the preparation. The effort is there. It's like if we want to be called as a leader, what do we prepare? The mentality, the knowledge, the ways, how to be the leader. Like that. If it doesn't work, how? Get the knowledge, right? Lucky, right? We've learned. Maybe not this year, maybe next year, like that song.

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This is also important, because some people, if the manifestation or LOA fails, people will think, "That's not right." But it turns out there is one interesting thing, because you mentioned it earlier, at least we learn from what we try. Isn't that a failure, Sandra?

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It's just a matter of time. Not yet. Not yet. And she expects, like Sandra, most people who wait for the over-attraction to happen, for the manifesting to happen, are people who are not sincere. Oh, so they don't wait for it? Yes. It's like this, we've been trying everything from A to Z. Then suddenly we say, "You give it to me, I've tried it." Like that.

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But if the sincere person says, "I'll try A to Z, I'll give it to you. If you want to give me what I want, Alhamdulillah. If you don't give me what I want, please give me more." It's different, right? You should be manifesting like that. Not just like that, "Do you want it? I'm trying. Do you want it?"

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- Yes, yes, yes. - Like a gift? Yes, yes, yes. For example, we are manifesting. One of the things that has worked is like... The first thing that worked was a laptop. Because I really want a laptop. I really like to write. I really like to write. So I thought, "Oh my God, I want to write a book." The title is "I Am The King". I did it on purpose so that...

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People who read that book realize that they are kings in their lives. You become a puppet in other people's lives, it's okay. But you can't be a puppet in your own life. You have to be a king in your own life. That's the meaning of self-monopoly. And it's in line with the law of attraction. Law of mirror. That's what I taught Cassandra. That's why I rejected when I said non-monopoly energy practitioners.

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I understand the energy game. Managing stress. And that exists. I'll spill a little bit. Pray for me, I can bring it to the public. Not only theory, but also the practice. How to reduce your negative thoughts. Without you having to tell. Without you having to take medicine.

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Without you have to share with anyone. - How do you do it? - Later. Pray for me, later I'll bring it. From the theory I made, I can immediately put it into practice. It started from theory first. If someone says, "Oh, this is just a theory." Yes, everything started from theory. - Then there is practice. - Yes, like that. Cassandra, hopefully later invited again. - Okay. But if it means, for example, the manifestation,

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Like when you manifest a car, you know what car it is, what color it is, where you bought it, what kind of indian it is, for example. But there is also waiting time, right? Because it's impossible to get it right away the next day. The manifestation doesn't work like that. In this waiting time, it's best to be sincere.

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Like, you don't have to think about it at all, or do we manifest it in other ways so that there's a thought or what? When you're manifesting, do you remember or want to? Want to. Okay. That's where it's wrong. Oh, okay. It's smart that there's no manifestation that's wrong.

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When we do, I'm not going to blame you, Cassandra. This is my point of view. I'm sorry if I'm off topic. So, when we do Law of Attraction, we are actually remembering. Remembering. Cassandra, try to mention the color of the clothes that you have at home. Black, pink, blue, everything. All right.

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Let me say it again, do you have a Rolex at home? No. Not yet. The answer is quick, right? But when I say, "Do you have a Rolex at home?" Not yet. That's the answer again, right? And that's thinking, "What do you mean?" If I say yes, I don't have it. If I say no, it looks poor.

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- Oh, that's right. I was over-thinking. - Oh, you were over-thinking. When we want something, we put it down, the analog is not right. Sorry, we delete it. Sometimes the analog is a bit difficult. The right analog, I asked about the color of the clothes, right? You answered it right away, fast. Blue, pink, all kinds of colors. When you want something, for example, you wanted a car. - Do you have a BMW at home? - No.

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No. The fastest answer is to remember, right? Yes. Just like when I asked if you have a Rolex. No, I don't. Remembering is faster, right? Rather than wanting. When we remember, we have space there. Oh, yeah? Do I want this or not? Can I or not? How? But when you remember, "Do you have a Rolex?" "I do." "Really?" "Yes, I do." "Where?" "At the store." "Oh, you're so silly." "Is it true? At the store?" "It's just not bought yet." "Where did you get it?" "I don't know."

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I don't know. Seriously, do you really have 300 million? I do. Where from? I don't know. Let God decide where the money comes from. If you're already playing with energy, you'll get into what I'm saying. Because when you ask, "Karoma, how did you get here?" I don't know. I don't know. What I do is, first, I'm just grateful. Sincere. Confident. Okay? Self-love. Happy. And business.

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- It's a self-love. - It's about loving yourself. Because when we love ourselves, we don't think about others, we don't think about validation. They say they're grateful, but they're jealous. They comment on other people's comments, "Hala, Bacot. Hala, Pret." They waste their energy. We just talk, "Kassandra, I'm tired." We're wasting energy. In every talk, there's energy.

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Just imagine how much energy he lost when he said, "I'm poor, I don't eat, I'm like this, I'm like that." And that strengthens that position in his life. Strengthens the poverty that he calls it in his life. And this will hinder the manifestation. Because there is no sense of gratitude. But if every day he does, when he eats, "Oh my God, Harbi, it's really good."

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When I was walking, I was tired. It's so nice to have a car. Alhamdulillah, I can walk again.

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- It means to think more about the good things. - Happiness. So that, I mean, if you think it's good, the result will be good. - Yes. - This is about mental recovery. Mental recovery is still in a good condition. But that's common, there are many Romani who say that, Cassandra. - There are people who are sad, Romani. - Yes. It's not allowed, but keep silent.

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Oh really? So if we're sad, we don't have to cry? Just cry in the room. Oh, cry in the room. If you want to make people cry, just cry in the room. Sorry. If you want to make people cry, just cry in the room. Like that. So no one has to know. No one has to know. That's the secret. The more you expose sadness, expose poverty, expose shortcomings, expose everything that...

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Problems, trauma, whatever, the stronger it is inside you, the more it enters your subconscious, the more it enters your identity and affects your nervous system, so you can produce negative frequencies that are in line with your nervous system. This knowledge is connected to the Law of Mirror. Yes, yes, yes. If someone asks,

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- I collected questions about this LOA yesterday. - Oh, I see. Then the first question that was asked a lot was, well, we talked about LOA, which means we talked about good words. For example, we have good plans, don't be afraid.

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But people say that even if we have a plan, we should keep to ourselves first Because I'm afraid that if we have a good plan, I'm afraid it will lead to bad energy Or maybe like anger, correct me if I'm wrong, okay? Maybe anger or maybe people's anger that actually brings bad energy What do you think? I think there is a miscommunication here

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- How? - When... Yes. When it's a misunderstanding, I think. What's wrong with that? Different good words from good plans. Plans, keep it by yourself. If it's your plan, just keep it by yourself. What do you want to do? Do you want to go back? Do you want to do one, two, three, four steps? Just keep it.

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But if we talk about something good, for example, we ride a motorcycle. Oh my God, it's so nice, the wind is like a millimeter. Until the helmet flies like that. There's someone whose helmet flies, he's angry. There's someone whose helmet flies, he laughs, he's even videoed, then he's viral. You know, right? Helmet, gojek, like this.

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There are people who are angry, their energy is not good, their energy is angry, angry, there are people who take advantage of it, oh this is funny, this is funny, this is different, the same, words and good plans are two different things. If the words are good, for example, Alhamdulillah, today the weather is good, Mashallah.

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Alhamdulillah, tomorrow I'm going abroad. Where are you going? Well, where else? What's important is abroad. To China, to Europe, where else? Where is the money from? Eh, I don't know, let God decide. That's a good word. That's a good word, right? But if the plan is good. So if you want to open a business, just Wikipedia, Twitter, WhatsApp. Yes, if you want to open it, just open it, just say it. Eh, I've opened this, come on. But in my opinion, you don't have to invite your friend. But it's like... Later ask for a promo.

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Sometimes when I want to protest, I'm like, "No, I'm sure I'll have a business in the future." Is that a saying or a plan? - No, it's a saying. - Two things that are very subtle. Planning is like this, two more days, I want to come here, then I turn around like this, then I want to take this. Oh, the steps are very precise. Yes, your steps, your strategy, your planning, just keep it by yourself. But it's a good saying, it's okay, just say it.

43:30

This is an incident, my friend who became a diplomat. Diplomat again, diplomat in a foreign country. Every day she said, "I will marry a foreigner. I will marry a foreigner." From high school to college. Why don't you have a girlfriend? No one wants me. Do you want to be with an Indonesian? No, I don't want to. I want to be with a foreigner. I want to have a beautiful child.

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Yeah, she wants to have a blue eye. Every day, Cassandra is repeated. It happens. It really happens. With Bule, the baby is so beautiful. She doesn't tell you how to take steps. For example, her steps are taking...

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What is it called? Student. She works. She works, she's in a relationship. She's in a relationship, she gets married. This is step by step. That's what you don't need to tell people. Don't bother, what's the point? Okay, okay. But to say like, I want to be with someone, it's okay. Or maybe it's a good thing. The other things are okay, right? Roma, why are you single? Yes, later you want to marry a rich person. Who is Roma? I don't know. The important thing is that she's handsome, rich, that's it.

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- Okay. - Hard work. - That's a manifestation of karma, right? - Yes. - That's for example. - And it's okay. - For example, for people to know. - Yes. Oh, okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Now, next, Sis. The question is this. How do we be happy with other people's achievements so that their achievements will be passed on to us? Especially if we are in a competition. Maybe this is in one department, if it's in the office, right? So, how is that, Sis?

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- Cassandra, do you believe in miracles? - I do. - Okay, miracle. - I'll spill one. I always think about this. When your friend experiences the thing you dream of the most in your life, and he's the first one to experience it, Allah is telling you, "This is the visual you get, what you want." When that happens around us, and Alhamdulillah, if it's our friend who experiences it, we are the next.

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We are the next. And this happened in my life, Kak Sandra. My friends at first were all influencers. Influencer of beauty, influencer of walking, eating, drama, like that. All influencers. In my heart, it was like, "Oh my God."

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I think it's easy for them to be an influencer. Why am I not? But it's okay, God. Alhamdulillah, at least I know this is how an influencer looks like. Thank you, God. You have shown me my future. That's a belief. Then I feel it again. I ask again, "Kassandra, how does it feel if I do an unboxing like this?" - Endorse like this. - VR package. Yes, like that. Then I think again, "Oh, that's nice."

46:24

Try again, and it turns out to be successful. Because it's already in front of our eyes. Cassandra, maybe yesterday there were a lot of people who didn't agree with me. How do we know the shape of the kain sutra if we don't see the kain sutra, right? It's the same if it doesn't happen in front of our eyes. How can we know that it is our dream?

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So what's the point of being jealous? - We should be grateful. - We should. - Because it's closer to the image we want. - Yes. I wouldn't know how to be an influencer if my friend is not an influencer. I know how much they pay, what endorsement they get. We wouldn't know, Sandra. The understanding is there. It's wrong. You're jealous first. What's the point of the success? You're jealous. No.

47:17

But sometimes the question is, if we are a real studio case, for example, there is a person who wants to go to one department, this is a job, to the same company. Then, for example, there are two people but only one is asked, right? What they need. It means they have to compete. If both of them use the same manifestation, use the same LOA technique, it means

47:44

- So there will be failures, right? There will be failures in the LOA? - There won't be failures. - Why is that? - Yeah. - Because there's only one that will be accepted. - Every human desire is different, Cassandra. For example, expectation A, the salary will be, for example, 100 million. Expectation B, for manifesting, he will get 150 million. We never know what a detailed manifesting is.

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It could be that the one who fails is the one who has 150 million. He wants 150 million. Finally, Allah gives him from other jobs that are in line with what he wants. So don't stress. Life is just two. Lucky and very lucky. - Amen. - It looks like he lost, huh? - Yes, that's right. - This B lost, huh? He wants 150 million. This one is 100 million. Well, the company's budget is 100 million. Who is taken? A. B is thrown away.

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Because of her desire, she manifested 150 million. The creator will look for a good position for this person to be able to produce 150 million. Is she losing or not? See, right? Everything is just a different perception. Because we don't know what she actually manifested in a narrow way. Because sometimes humans, Cassandra, they don't know what they want. Many are like that. There are people who know what they want, but they don't know what they need. This is a bit different. Humans are indeed a bit different.

49:09

Okay, okay. Sometimes people say that if they need something or want something, they don't know if it's a misunderstanding or not. Sometimes there is someone who has to think the other way around. For example, I want to pass PTN. I will imagine, "No, I don't think I'll pass. I think I didn't pass the test earlier." But it turns out to be a pass. So what do I attract from writing here? Expectations.

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- He manages his expectations? - No. When he thinks... Sandra said, "Why is there someone who thinks the opposite and it happens?" When he thinks the opposite, he doesn't expect anything. But when he thinks the positive, he has expectations. The biggest enemy in Law of Attraction is expectation. So where do we place our expectations? That's what I've been thinking from the beginning. Remember to be sincere.

50:08

For example, from just negative words, it can be different, right? For example, Cassandra went out of the house and it was raining. - Ah, it's raining again. - Yes, there are people who say that. But there are people who think positively. Oh, it's raining. Alhamdulillah, at least today it's cold, not hot when I go out. Just order Grab Car. Like that.

50:32

There's something like that. Why is it important to have a response? Because there are people who say, "How to keep the energy?" Whatever happens, the response must be positive. - Wow. So it's not toxic. - No, no, no. We can be mad, "Oh God, it's raining." But it's okay. It's cool. "Oh God, it's so hot." But it's okay. Rather than rain, I'll wear it. So the word is negative, but it's said again. Back to...

51:04

- The expectation. - Yes. When someone expects something positive, the positive will not happen. When someone expects something negative, it will happen. Because Law of Attraction is not about moral, good or bad, like it or not. It's about frequency. And the same frequency will attract each other. And the biggest enemy of frequency is expectation. Because it will

51:35

The frequency doesn't connect with the expectation. The frequency that he released from his body is low. The expectation is high. What happened? - It didn't connect. - It's low.

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This is not about what he wants, but about what he has come out of himself. So from the beginning we have to renovate our mental. Oh that's why. I'm just a little suspicious of people who say toxic positivity. Why is that? Yes, if it can be positive, why must it be negative?

52:09

If you can connect both of them, why do you have to leave them? Because usually toxic positivity is always emphasizing positive, positive, even though it's actually not honest with the feeling, sis. Yes, give it time for one day, after that it's positive again. For example, break up, give it time, three days. Yes, we're in the room, we're teasing him, swearing, all kinds of things. After that, just come back again. Do you want to stay in the dark for a long time like that?

52:38

So, it's to get out of trouble quickly, actually, this thought. Okay, okay. There's another one, Kak. If Eloy is about the energy of thought, does this include, I mean, what are the circumstances? How much can it affect? Is it something that we can't control? Because, for example,

52:56

- There's... - A natural disaster. Or for example, we were hit by a car. Do we attract something negative? Until we're like, "Damn it." - Oh, I get it. Someone said, "What I think will happen." - Yeah. If you're a Muslim, I'm also careful about that. Because now...

53:20

I don't care about myself and I don't want to care about myself. But whatever I think, it happens. Alhamdulillah, by the will of Allah. Because I think Allah is the best. And every time I think it's bad, I always say, "O Allah, O Rabbiku." If I think it's bad and it happens, please protect me if it's bad. I always read the ayat kursi, and other verses. Because it's too...

53:48

This is actually dangerous. If we are smart and play with energy, we already know the language of the universe, right, Kaisandra? Resist now, to get moral. I've said it from the beginning. This is about frequency. We already know the play of energy. We already know the play of frequency. What we say can be a reality. I am very careful to curse someone now. So even bad thoughts, every bad thought will appear. I will start thinking, "O Allah, please forgive me." If that happens, please forgive me.

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Ya Allah Ya Rabbi, please. If it's bad, please don't accept it. So it starts to be managed, it's being put in. Yes. So it's true, right? So the answer to this question is, as big and as wide as it is, it can affect. Yes. And attract. Attract anything that is in our minds, it means that we are good and bad, so we have to be careful. Right. Because as wide as it is, as terrible as the frequency game is.

54:50

Interesting. That's why I don't stop thinking about people who always think about their fate. "I'm like this, I'm like that." God created you with an amazing mind, an amazing brain, but you focus on the difficulties you're experiencing today, not the greatness you have. And people who don't love themselves will not know what Cassandra's advantages are. Try asking. Yes, that's right.

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One last question, if someone listens and they want to start, there's a law of attraction, there's a manifestation in their life, what important things do they have to focus on first? - Being happy. - Being happy? - Yeah. - Sincere, right? Meaning honestly being happy. - Just happy. Do you know why we're not stressed when we're young?

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Because we don't think about anything. - Right. When we don't think about anything, we're happy, right? - Happy. - That's happiness. That's happiness, Cassandra. We have a lot of work. Even though there are five of them. First, gratitude, sincerity, self-love, happiness, and the last one is intuition. Yes, business. The last business, right? The fourth is about happiness. Focus on happiness. Maybe you don't believe it because you haven't seen the person directly.

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There are people whose DNA is really an asset. That's a very good life. Because in their lives, they show how easy it is to get money, Cassandra. This reaches the bottom of their consciousness, Cassandra. We can be difficult. One of them is me. I used to think money was difficult. Because in my family, the income is difficult. It's absorbed into my DNA.

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And if you ask me how to change the karma, affirmation. You have to decide the DNA in you. Don't let it be when you have a child. The poverty of the DNA, the poverty of the DNA, the lack of the DNA. DNA is everything that makes you think about life is hard, the economy is hard.

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Try to break it in you. Don't let it enter your child's DNA. Because this will always repeat, repeat, repeat, repeat. And if you look at Feng Shui knowledge, this is called karma knowledge, right? There is a name for karma, right? Yes. That is... - You have to be happy and affirm. - Yes. - You have to. - Should I have it in the morning, noon, evening, or at night? - Is there a certain time? - Oh, I was spellbound earlier. - Oh, spell again. - Yes, in the morning, noon, and at night. Oh, it means that in the evening, we can affirm ourselves too.

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For a Muslim, Tahajud. Because now, people say that when they see the mirror, they say, "You can do that, sis." - "You can do it, Sandra." - Of course I can. It's like that, right?

57:53

That's a lot of fun actually. But actually for people who believe in this kind of therapy and affirmations have the power to be there, for their confidence, it's actually good. But it seems like it's being played with by people, being mocked by people on social media, so it's like, "Ah, a little bit of affirmation, a little bit of affirmation." How is it? Affirmation, yes. Affirmation is very deep, be careful. It's a shame if you don't use the knowledge of affirmation. Okay.

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Do you believe or not that I got the sustenance, Alhamdulillah? Health, whatever it is. It's not about money, right, Cassandra? We, you know, talk about money. Whatever it is, it's from affirmation. What will you do in affirmation? I always say, "Oh my God, it's so good if I get invited to a podcast." "Oh my God, it's so good if I can eat at that fancy restaurant."

58:52

Even, when I ride a motorcycle, I still like to ride a motorcycle. Because riding a motorcycle makes me... If I'm driven, it's nice. But I can't open the window, I can't touch the wind. That's just for work, if I'm driven. But for daily life, I prefer to ride a motorcycle. When the wind, when I see the tall buildings, I think of affirmations.

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Even wherever you are, when you're at the bus station, when you're on your way home, when you're on the road, when you're doing something. When you see what you want the most, even when there's a car that you dream of passing by. "Oh my God, thank you for showing me the car to my future." That's an affirmation, Cassandra. When we look at the tall building, "Oh my God, Robbiku, what do you think if I become the owner of this building?" Wow, that's an affirmation, Cassandra.

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When we see a luxurious apartment, for example, Da Vinci's apartment is very luxurious. Then I think, I often say that to Sandra, how does it feel to live in an apartment? How does that feel? The apartment is not that one, the condo is like that. - Penthouse maybe. - Yes, where is it, oh my God, it must be nice.

1:00:15

That's an affirmation. Most people force it, right, Kak Sandra? Even though that affirmation can be done anywhere. For example, if there are people who are raising money in the ATM, a lot of them. "Oh my God, it's so good, right? My money is like that." A lot. Even, Kak Sandra knows, I've done affirmations from seeing my friend's account. - So that's how simple it is, actually. - Yes. For example, if you have a friend who has a billion, can you see the number?

1:00:46

- Can you give an affirmation? - I'm asking you, Cassandra. Don't touch it, let her do it. She's the one who's looking. Remember what I said earlier, Cassandra? How do we know if it's a fabric or not? Okay, I get the concept. Now I understand why sellers, why people who work with money are richer than those who don't work in the money sector. Because they're used to seeing money, Cassandra. They're used to seeing numbers.

1:01:14

And when I want to see my friend's savings, for example, the number, try to see. Oh my God, I hope it's not me. Our eyes are like recording, Cassandra. Like getting our eyes used to it. Oh, imagine, affirm, "Oh my God, it's nice to have this much savings, 100." "It's nice to have this much savings, billions." Look first. If there's none, how do you do it, Ms. Roma? Print. Print. Cassandra, have you printed it? Not yet. Print, Cassandra. But I've made a mood board.

1:01:44

- Notation. - Maybe at the place where Cassandra... ...opens her eyes, closes her eyes, closes her eyes, closes her eyes. When she saw it, "Hi, my house." "Hi, my car." A lot. "I did that." Yes, I did that. No wonder people say I'm crazy. So it's visualized, right? And it's also affirmed. Why is it that if we're said crazy? If we're crazy, we're rich, why not? If we're crazy and we're poor, that's a problem. But if we...

1:02:19

Okay, so maybe people who want to start LOA or manifestation can start with the affirmation earlier. There were also a lot of tips from Karoma that can be practiced.

1:02:38

- What else? - You have to be happy. - You have to be happy. - Do your hobbies, guys. - Oh, I have a hobby too. - There are a lot of them now. I'm not selling classes. There are people who organize workshops, make flowers, pottery, painting, like that. - That's right. - That's right. That's when you're happy. Don't think that we spend money there, Sandra. They also have employees. We attend classes, we pay the employees, pay for the classes. It's a lot, it's a blessing, Sandra. Sometimes we go to eat at a restaurant, it's like that.

1:03:08

People who save their lives are just too hard to handle. Don't save your life too much. Don't be too greedy. But I agree with you. That's what Cassandra said. Abundance. Where's the advantage if it's too expensive? It's okay.

1:03:24

She counts people's sustenance. But you can't. You'll be a thief. Okay. So, I hope what we're talking about here is useful and I hope this will bring something more positive for Safe Development, whoever is watching. Bye. Thank you for sharing. I hope the projects of Kakak Julia will be smoothed out in the future. All the processes will be smoothed out as well. Bye. Thank you for watching. See you in the next episode.

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