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The Belief Trap: Why 99% Stay Stuck in the Same Patterns

11:39901 summary words · ~5 min readEnglishBy Tony RobbinsTranscribed Oct 7, 2026

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Summary

Lasting behavioral change requires rewiring underlying beliefs and physical state, because thoughts and reactions are unconsciously primed by your physiology and environment rather than conscious decision-making.

Without actively managing your physiological baseline and controlling environmental priming, commercial algorithms and low-energy defaults dictate your emotional well-being and life trajectory.

Section summaries

The Core Paradigm: Beliefs and Life Purpose

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Robbins opens by asserting that altering actions without shifting beliefs yields zero durable progress. He asks the audience to look back on severe past trauma and identify how surviving those brutal chapters generated resilience, intelligence, and empathy. From this reflection, he introduces the core operating philosophy: life is always happening for you rather than to you. Embracing this posture transforms personal problems from random punishments into essential growth opportunities, establishing that effective leaders distinguish themselves by seeking out and solving higher-caliber problems.

Behavior modification without underlying belief modification produces zero lasting transformation.
Reframing traumatic events as purposeful preparation eliminates victim identity.
Leadership capability is defined by the quality of problems you are willing to solve.

Establishes the central mental model and emotional foundation that underpins the entire presentation.

State Management, Measurement, and Priming

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This section bridges belief selection with emotional and physiological state. Robbins argues that which belief an individual adopts in any moment depends on their current state, making state management a leader's top responsibility. He applies a management maxim: unmeasured domains inevitably deteriorate, contrasting ineffective annual audits with responsive monthly reviews. He then discusses invisible forces—such as gravity and radiation—that dictate human responses, using them as an analogy to introduce priming as the dominant, hidden psychological force controlling modern human thought.

Internal state determines which preexisting beliefs and thoughts are accessed at any given moment.
Monthly metric reviews provide 12 opportunities for corrective action compared to failing annual reviews.
Priming acts as an invisible psychological current that directs subconscious behavior without conscious input.

Crucial for understanding how physical states and measurement discipline interact with psychology.

Thought Auditing and Physiological Voltage

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Robbins leads an immediate written exercise, commanding the audience to document their top one or two chronic stress thoughts and observe the immediate downstream feelings and behaviors they produce. He contrasts this with moments of fulfillment to demonstrate that mental focus is determined by biological energy, or 'voltage.' Depleted bodily voltage automatically surfaces painful, protective thoughts, whereas high voltage activates curiosity, playfulness, and courage. He clarifies that achieving a 'beautiful state' does not mean toxic positivity or relentless cheerfulness, but rather maintaining an energized baseline.

Stress thoughts instantly trigger predictable somatic and behavioral contraction loops.
Biological voltage directly determines whether the brain recalls threat-based or empowering memories.
A constructive baseline state encompasses focus, boldness, and curiosity, not superficial happiness.

Contains the video's primary diagnostic exercise and clarifies the operational definition of emotional state.

Digital Hijacking and Pragmatic Problem Solving

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The discussion turns to external influences, specifically how social media algorithms systematically keep individuals trapped in low-voltage, reactive doom-scrolling cycles. Robbins utilizes the metaphor of a television receiver to explain that the human body simply tunes into different thought frequencies—comedy, horror, or epic drama—based on how it is operated. He sharply dismisses naive positive thinking, arguing that denying the presence of weeds in a garden guarantees ruin. The section finishes by previewing somatic intervention methods designed to root out limiting beliefs physiologically rather than through mere intellectual debate.

Social media platforms intentionally exploit neurological triggers to keep consumers locked in low-voltage states.
The physical body operates as an antenna tuning into specific emotional genres.
Pragmatic growth requires physically uprooting mental problems instead of reciting positive affirmations over them.

Useful cultural and algorithmic critique, but largely elaborates on metaphors introduced earlier.

Myelination and Edge-of-Ability Conditioning

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In the concluding segment, Robbins explains how to consciously seize control of priming through deliberate conditioning. Citing Daniel Coyle's *The Talent Code*, he examines the disproportionate athletic success of Russian training centers and the Williams sisters to illustrate deep practice. Long-term mastery demands training directly at the edge of comfort and uncertainty, which stimulates the growth of myelin along nervous system pathways. Robbins stresses that rewiring oneself from slow dial-up speeds to instant neurological reactions requires pairing this boundary-pushing repetition with intense emotional energy.

True talent and automatic execution are formed by practicing just beyond current comfort and capability.
Myelin accumulation physically insulates neural circuits, converting sluggish efforts into lightning-fast automatic reactions.
Repetition alone is insufficient; physical wiring requires deep emotional intensity to consolidate.

Delivers the core neuro-biological mechanism required to physically lock in permanent behavioral changes.

Key points

Physiological Voltage Selects Mental Channels — Thoughts are not purely personal inventions; your body acts like a receiver whose energy level ('voltage') selects whether you tune into stressful threat-detection or creative problem-solving.
Unconscious Environmental Priming Governs Behavior — Priming is an invisible psychological force where preceding stimuli silently dictate subsequent thoughts, emotional responses, and behavioral choices before rational thought intervenes.
Myelination Requires Emotion and Discomfort — Building rapid, automatic habits and beliefs requires deep practice at the edge of uncertainty, paired with intense emotional charge to physically insulate neural pathways with myelin.
The Reframing of Adversity as Functional Growth — Treating extreme hardships as events happening 'for you' instead of 'to you' transforms suffering into necessary developmental training for leadership.

“If we don't change what we believe, we can change our behavior, but nothing will change. We change our beliefs, everything change.” — Tony Robbins

“What if life was always happening for you and never to you?” — Tony Robbins

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If we don't change what we believe, we

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can change our behavior, but nothing

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will change.

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We change our beliefs, everything

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change. And I am not here to tell you

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what to believe. I can take you through

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a process of uncovering what's holding

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you back.

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Which is always a belief.

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To be fearful, you have to believe that

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something is scary or bad for you or

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could hurt you or destroy you. And yet

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we all know the hero's journey. How many

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of you have something that's happened in

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your life years ago that was so brutal

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that you would never want to go through

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it again. You never want anybody you

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care about to go through it. But looking

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back 5 years, 10 years ago, I see why

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the universe and God created that for

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me. I'm stronger, I care more, I'm

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smarter. Thank God it happened. So I

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offer you something to consider to start

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the day. What if

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life was always happening for you

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[music] and never to you? What if that

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wasn't some phrase? What if it was the

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deepest truth

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in your destiny, in your soul,

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>> [music]

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>> that everything that has ever happened

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has happened for a reason and a purpose,

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and that it serves you, but it's our job

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to find how it serves us?

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What would happen if everything in your

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life,

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every single thing was happening for

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you, even the things you thought were

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happening to you?

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When you begin to recognize that, life

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becomes

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filled with a sense of guidance and

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faith and purpose.

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And you start realizing that problems

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really are gifts cuz they called you to

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grow in ways you wouldn't have without

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them.

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And that maybe you'd prefer not to have

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some of them, but if you're proactive,

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maybe you'd get less of those problems,

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or you'd at least get better quality

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problems.

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Besides that, what makes somebody a

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leader? It's their ability to solve

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problems. THEY HAVE A VISION, they want

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to make things happen. But if you want

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to make things happen, something's going

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to get in your way or it would have

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already been

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Leaders eat problems for breakfast.

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Everyone's going to have problems. The

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key is to get better quality problems

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and not have the same freaking problem

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over and over again cuz you didn't

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learn, right?

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So, today we're going to deal with that

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like it's never been dealt with, not

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intellectually. We're going to deal with

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it in a way where we get these limiting

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beliefs out of your body and you're

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going to pick them. I'm not going to

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tell you what they are.

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But before we do, to be creators, we

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have to know what controls our thoughts.

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And yes, our beliefs control our

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thoughts, but you have

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you have multiple beliefs you've been

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taught.

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So, which ones you select, I want to

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show you how that happens so you can be

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the creator and not the manager. Cuz I

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want you to think about this. Well, the

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first thing that determines which one

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you pick is the state you're in. If you

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don't manage your state, it's going to

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be hurt. Your example as a leader in

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anything you're part of is the state you

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bring.

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That's what [music] makes people want to

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be with you.

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And so that's why living in a beautiful

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state is one of the most important

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decisions of your life and one you'll

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have to remind yourself of. Cuz we spend

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an hour on it one day. If you don't

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measure something, you can't manage it.

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If you don't manage things, you don't

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know what's going on. That's usually how

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you get bit cuz if you measure something

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once a year, you're going to have bad

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years.

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If you measure it once a month, you

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won't have bad years cuz you got 12

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times the check-in and make a

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correction. There are things outside of

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you that do influence you, invisible

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forces.

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That's not like, oh, I shouldn't feel

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like I'm at the effect of things.

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Invisible forces means we know there's

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gravity, so we build muscle to push

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against it. Otherwise, you'd just be on

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the ground all day long.

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We know that there's radiation. So, you

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put some sunscreen on perhaps in certain

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days.

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In other words, invisible forces,

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they're not something you can't

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influence, but you have to be aware of

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them. So, I'm going to start this

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morning with a very important invisible

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force that most people for some reason

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don't seem to know. And that is a term

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called priming.

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Priming. Jot it down. What is priming?

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It is a psychological principle

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and it's such a simple one,

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but it's controlling most people's

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lives.

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See, most of us think when we think a

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thought, I thought that thought, I made

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up that thought.

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First of all, it's probably not even

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your thought.

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I want you right now to think of your

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most stressful thought. In fact, just do

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me a favor. For 1 second, take out your

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paper or your iPad or your phone or

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whatever. Write down what are your

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one or two most stressful thoughts that

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come up in your life. Just for a second.

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About yourself, about your family, about

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finance. What is it that maybe grabs you

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at times? When you have this thought,

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what do you start to feel and what do

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you start to do?

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When you have this really stressful

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thought, how do you start to become? How

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do you start to act? How do you start to

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feel? How do you behave when you let

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this stressful thought dominate your

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thinking?

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If you know one or two stressful

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thoughts that really get you,

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kind of know what tends to trigger them,

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what you feel, you experience. Real

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fast, think of a really positive thought

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that sometimes strikes you. What's a

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thing you focus on sometimes that lights

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you up?

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What's a thought you have that makes you

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really happy? What's a thought that

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makes you feel really fulfilled? What's

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a thought that makes your life feel

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meaningful? You may not have it as much

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as the other thought. You might have it

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more, I don't know. So, your thoughts

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are triggered by many things. Number

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one, your energy level. When your energy

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level is low, which thoughts show up?

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The happy thoughts or the painful

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thoughts?

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No question about it. That's why

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managing your state is your still your

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number one job. And you don't want to

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just manage your state, you want to

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train yourself where that is your base.

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That doesn't mean you're happy as hell

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every moment. A beautiful state could be

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focused. It could be being grateful. It

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could be getting curious. It could be

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being playful, fun. It could be a

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courageous move, a bold move. It doesn't

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mean you're happy happy all the time.

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That's Nobody's one thing all

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the time.

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But I want you to get why being in a

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beautiful state is so important cuz

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it'll define your thoughts. It's the

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level of voltage in your body. Low

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voltage,

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thoughts. Low voltage, not a lot of

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action.

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And there are certain things you've

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choose to use to go low voltage. And by

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the way, there are times you want to be

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low voltage. You want to relax, you

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don't want to think, you don't want to

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do anything. There's nothing wrong with

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that. But today, it's a situation where

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we have used social media like we used

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to use television, only it's on steroids

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cuz they know how to wire you.

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So now you doom scroll forever. You get

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caught up in a world where they know the

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algorithm what's going to trigger you

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and keep you there. And so you're no

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longer running the show. Now you are not

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the manager of your circumstances. If

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you want to be in the command chair, you

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have to know what shapes you. So number

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one, stop thinking this is your thought

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or that it's unique. It is not unique to

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you. It is bull

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Now here's the key.

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Thoughts.

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If I told you 100 years ago you could

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fly to the moon and back, you would have

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called me a lunatic. That's where the

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term lunatic comes from. Of course,

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we've done it now, so people don't use

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that term very much.

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That's what lunatic is. Lunatic, a

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crazy. Someone says we're going to the

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moon and back.

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If I would have told you

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25, 50 years ago there's going to be a

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box in your pocket that you can pull out

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and you can hit some buttons

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and you'll be able to see and talk to

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people anywhere on Earth because there's

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these invisible waves around the Earth.

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And it's going to connect those visible

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waves to your box and you're going to

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see, feel, and connect with people like

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that.

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We thought it's insane. Now you know

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it's in your pocket. You take it for

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granted.

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Right? It's a lot more than that in your

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pocket, isn't it?

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So I want to tell you another thought.

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Thoughts are those same vibrations that

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are out everywhere. The only difference

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is how you use the this vessel here.

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Think of it like cable TV.

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If you use your body one way, you're

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going to turn on comedy. [music] Turn

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another, it's horror. Turn on another,

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it's sad, depressing stories. Turn on

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another one and you're going to have an

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epic story.

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This determines which thoughts you bring

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in.

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That is why managing your state is so

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important. How many get this here? Say

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I.

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So, it's not about being a positive

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thinker. I don't believe in positive

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thinking. I've told you, I don't say go

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to your garden and chant there's no

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weeds, there's no weeds. No, there's

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freaking weeds here. Let's rip them out.

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But, let's plant something new though.

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If you just rip them out, then you wait

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for something more weeds will come.

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So, I want to show you now what priming

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means. Cuz most of you are not thinking

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your own thoughts. Those thoughts you

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have, you use them to go home.

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So, if you change your home, like we

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talked about yesterday, and today we're

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going to really change it. We do this

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process called Dickens, where you're

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going to discover the beliefs that have

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limited you and rip them out. I mean,

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get them out of your body, not

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intellectually, physiologically.

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And replace them with something new,

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you'll have new thoughts.

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Cuz your beliefs control that.

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As do your values. Again,

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if you're security driven, you know

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every exit in this room. If you're

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adventure driven, you don't know where

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you came in.

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Right? What you notice is based on those

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things. But, there's something else, and

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it's called priming. Now, what is

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priming? It is a tool that's been used

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on you. I'd like you to use it for

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yourself. I'd like you to become the

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person who's the creator versus someone

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who's shaping you.

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And all priming is is simply this. You

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think something's your thoughts, but

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something happens before it that primes

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you to think that thought. How many

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think priming might be something you

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want to take control of rather than

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CONTROL YOU? SAY I.

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SO, here's the cool thing. It's very

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easy to take it back.

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Now, how does this work? Also, if you

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really want to take it back, you want to

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prime yourself so often that it doesn't

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matter what somebody says, you stay in

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the place you want.

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That's like building a muscle.

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Right? I'll I'll give you an example.

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There's a book I encourage you all to

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read. It's called The Talent Code. The

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Talent Code. And this book talks about,

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you see it up on the screen, by Daniel

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Coyle. It talks about how we wire

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ourselves. In fact, the focus in this

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book is on parts of Russia, certain

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families, uh like Serena and Venus

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Williams, for example. How do you get

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two members of a family to be the best

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in the world? How do you have certain

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cities in Russia where they have, I

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think it's like something like 25 gold

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medalists in this one tiny little town.

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And what they found out is these people

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have been primed to be the best over and

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over forever. But not only be the best,

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they did one more thing, and this is

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what I want you to do in priming and

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what I try to do with myself. You don't

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just practice something like tennis. You

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practice just beyond your comfort, your

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ability. Right? You get to that

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uncomfortable level of uncertainty that

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every creative person knows, cuz the

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only way real creativity happens.

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Otherwise, your need for certainty makes

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you keep doing the same thing and you

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don't grow.

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And but you do it over and over again.

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And here's the the whole lesson, I'll

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give you the whole book in one thought.

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It's all about myelin.

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Myelin is that white stuff you've ever

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seen in the brain? Well, it goes through

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your whole nervous system. If you do

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something, like these anchors that we've

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done a few on with the fire walk or

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things like that, or a certain phrase,

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yes,

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and you do it again and again and again

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and again with enough emotional

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intensity. It's not just repetition.

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With enough emotion, you get wired, you

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grow with myelin. So, think of this way,

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when you new at something, you're not

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good. I don't care who you are.

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That's why most people don't try new

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things after they get older.

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Right? You weren't good at walking to

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start with.

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Right? So, what happens though is if you

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do something and you do it again and you

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do it again, it's the think of one

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little tiny string of connection versus

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being wired. Think of old bandwidth

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where you used to have AOL and you used

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to hear that

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Anybody else remember that? Right? It

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took forever versus [music]

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lightning-like speed. I'm wired for the

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feelings that I have now. I have wired

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myself.

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>> [snorts]

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>> Hey.

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